My gf gets VERY emotional during her periods-and she broke up with me over sometime trivial 2 months ago. we were together a week later, but it was too late. I'd been away at a camp, and thered been 2 girls coming on to me strong. Im no ladies man and I wasnt used to the attention. Also having been dumped recently had me unstable. I made out with 1 who was a friendly southern girl whose bf had just broken up with her. I also felt girl2 in an uncalled for way, and she gave me a peck on the lips. my gf is friends with campgirl #2. When I got back home, i was with my gf for a day or two, then realized i had to come clean. i neglected to mention girl#2 to her because it had no emotional significance to me. but i later told her about that too. i lied, i cheated. i was forgiven, but now gf is back in school with girl#2 and is reminded of what we did every day. she says she misses me, and i know she loves me but what i did has tainted us. is there ANYTHING i can do to help her forgive+forget?
2006-09-12 12:54:58 · 15 answers · asked by DracBoi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Now a lot of people, (probably mostly girls) will say that you're stupid because you cheated on her, so it's your fault, you deserve it, and you can't have her. But, IF YOU REALLY LOVE HER, TRY EVERYTHING TO GET HER BACK. Talk to her every day, call her, do whatever it takes, but know when to stop. And buddy, if you do get her back, you sure as heck better be faithful, because she trusted you again, after you broke her trust once.
2006-09-12 12:59:04 · answer #1 · answered by grenworthshero 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truthfully, she is going to have to be the one to forgive. Forget just isn't an option. All you can do is go out of your way to prove that you are committed to her and only her. However, if every time you guys have an argument things like this happen, then you probably aren't meant to be together. A monogamous relationship is the ultimate test for a couple, and if you can pass that, then your reward is a lifetime of love and happiness! I really hope that things work out for you! Good luck and God Bless!
2006-09-12 13:00:50 · answer #2 · answered by kevin_p0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look. I cheated on my girlfriend and I did not tell her but she found out. She broke up with me. But then 2 days later I tell her I am sorry. I told her how I feel about her. I told her I was never in a real relationship. She finally forgave me. Though we are back together it has taken a lot to get her trust back with me.
2006-09-12 13:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by TOM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what style of guy are you? take delight in your self. you need to have uncovered her already and also you need to have dumped her already. Use a voice recorder secretly to tape her conversing about employing your artwork recommendations on your position. You tell her your vast theory on your next artwork challenge and make positive the recorder has the date and time, and then voice record her reaction. Then even as she copies your theory again, document her to the professor and enable him/her listen the voice recorder as info. She might want to also be booted out of the college, yet she advantages it. yet dumping her on her birthday feels like a sturdy theory too. She advantages it. Cheaters deserve no mercy.
2016-11-26 20:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you thought she was "the one" why did you cheat on her in the first place? I understand that difficult in between place with the are we broken up or or we together but there is no excuse for cheating.
2006-09-12 12:57:41 · answer #5 · answered by white oleander 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to sit down with her and let her know she is very special to you and you would want her to forgive and forget just this once. And if there is a chance of her forgiving you, i hope next time you will think twice before compromising your relationship with your gal.
2006-09-12 12:58:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was the one YOU wouldn't have cheated but you already said you were broken up when you slept with another so thats not really cheating. Camp? how old are you guys?
2006-09-12 12:57:22 · answer #7 · answered by wilowdreams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You may never get her back. And you did it 2 times.
My bf cheated on me and told me and now we are drifting further apart every day. It will probally be over soon because I cannot forget.
2006-09-12 13:03:32 · answer #8 · answered by ladyparadise777 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2017-03-03 19:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she not "the one" if you cheated on her on the first place! seriously, you need to understand what your heart wants and what's your sexual desire? you are confused! make your mind! forget about her for she deserved to be with someone better than you!
2006-09-12 13:22:49 · answer #10 · answered by immortality1983 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋