I'm shy and she is shy. There is this girl, in 6th grade i heard she liked me from her friends, and i start to hang around wiith her. Then one day i told her to stop b*tching infront of her friends. And then we stopped hanging around eachother. in 7th grade i was kicked out for some reason or another (no nothing bad) i came back in my freshman year of high school and she's a cheerleader and i play football now. I have her in one hour of my 6 hours and different lunch hours. She thinks i still have a girl friend, at least i think that she thinks i do. I'm way to shy and i will never work up the nerve to ask her out up front, and now i think her friend is flirting with me in another one of my classes. I want to know what i should do now? Keep in mind that she is reallly shy and i am to the point were i can't ask her out in person. Please Please help. i dont think she has had any other boyfriends since 6th grade. and every1 thinks she's ok looking but i thnk shes hot. please help!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 12:51:05 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dude.
if you like her get her number
and
ask her out over the phone.
if not.
write her a note.
but you give it to her.
no one else.
but
its okay to be shy.
but if she's really shy you should make the first move.
so.
go.
go ahead and ask her and get it over with.
i belive in you.
lol.
its not that bad.
:)
2006-09-12 12:54:54 · answer #1 · answered by whitney t 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you know if she has a computer at home? You might try and see if a friend of hers might give you her email address and you could privately write her and see where things stand as far as where you two left off in 6th grade. At least it wouldn't be face to face and might be easier for both of you to talk.
Or, get to class abit early one day and leave a note on her desk asking her to meet you after practice some evening somewhere near the school. Tell her in the note that you are someone from her past and still in her present and you would like to renew the friendship you used to have. If the note thing isn't possible..is there a student bulletin board where you could leave asimilar note?
Don't give up on her if she is that special to you. Shy or not, you're gonna have to talk to her if you want her back. She may be anxiously waiting for you to make the first move...don't disappoint her!!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!!!
2006-09-12 13:03:04 · answer #2 · answered by atthean 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg, you sound exactly like this boy I used to like alot. Okay the sad truth is nothing will happen unless you stop being a little shy. Trust me you WILL NEVER REGRET ANY of this if you just do it. The first step is to pretend like you dont have a pencil and go ask her if she has in extra one. Its REALLLY simple. She will think its CUTE (ALL GIRLS DO, trust me) and if she doesnt then say, "okay, thanks, hey when is your next cheerleading practice?" (keep it casual) then she will say, "blah blah," then u say, "cool (hopefully u will have football practice around the same time so COMMENT on that)." then go back to your desk. DONT DO ANYHTING MORE until the next day. Try not to even look at her. Then the next day--stare your EYES out at her until you make several eye contacts. This is all the begining. Work your way from there. And REMEMBER! "Being brave will bring happy stories, being shy will bring you stories you ALWAYS will wish you had." Good luck in your girl, and football! :)
2006-09-12 12:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
CANT STRESS ENOUGH THAT YOU DO SOMETHING BEFORE IT'S TOO LATE. High school is the time when couples get 'serious'. And from there a couple can last up to 4 years. You're going to have to get over your shy issues, and work up the nerve to talk to her. A girl knows when a guy likes her, but she likes to hear it. You can be the guy to break her out of her shell just as she'll be the girl to break you out of YOUR shell. I've been with my guy for 2 years now. But you know what I found out when he asked me out? That he had a crush on me since the first time he laid eyes on me. That was freshman year in summer school...and you know what? I had a huge crush on him, but i never had the nerve to talk to him becuase i thought he was too cute for me. that I wouldn't be pretty enough for him. You know what else i found out? That he thought that I would be too pretty for him, and that i wouldn't think he was good enough for me . Well we were both in shock, but in a sense we both knew we had a thing for each other...but it was only 3 years after that first time we met that we talked again. you'll only regret that you never worked up the nerve to talk to her...DO IT. You'll be happy that you at least tried if things don't work out. GOOD LUCK!!!
Oh...and lay of the friend if you want to keep a good relationship with her. ((cause if things work out,,,she'll use it against you))
Oh and I also agree with yuggy. Beautiful sounds much more respectful...and deep...LOL
2006-09-12 13:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by LadyD 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello shy:
Shy gather up all the strength you can AND ASK HER OUT!!!
YOU SNOOZE YOU LOSE!!!
You don't know until you ask she may really like you.
Shy you will really score points if you ask her parents if you can take her out. This lets her know that you are being sincere and this will calm the parents down also. Do something different so she will think that you are not like all the other boring guys out there, be spontanous!! and if she says yes, don't get nervous and uptight just enjoy yourself and enjoy the most beautiful girl that said yes to YOU!
2006-09-12 13:00:38 · answer #5 · answered by criticalfrozen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can help i am in 6th ok first u shouldnt have said that she is p.o.ed at u i bet i would so we will not rejest u hard but if she is a b*tch she will make your life hell for like 5 minutes and she will tell all her friends so just go ask her she might be nice + i did this with a guy if she has an aim use that it works. i hope it works i no how you feel i am shy to i just sucked it up and ask him or leave hints around that u like her
2006-09-12 12:55:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lola the Snake 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does she have a myspace or something? Since you can't work up the nerve to ask her out in person, do it by email. If not, you're definately going to have to do it face to face. The worst possible thing that can happen is she'll say no. Take the risk...It just might be worth it.
2006-09-12 12:55:13 · answer #7 · answered by Just♥Brie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I think you're screwed after what you did in 7th grade, but anyway!
You have to talk to her somehow and ask, your best bet is the phone, since after all, both of you are shy. If you don't want to ask someone for her number, use your school directory. Most schools have them.
2006-09-12 12:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Icesage0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take advantage of the flirting friend and ask her if this girl that you like is into you. If she says yes, you should ask her out because you know she likes you. If her friend says she doesn't like you, you should find ways to talk to her anyways to get her to like you. You will never know if you don't make a move
2006-09-12 12:54:34 · answer #9 · answered by LuLu 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be your own self dude thik what you want don't let other people tell you what to think of her .. its there opinion not yours. go up to her and talk to her don'
t be shy cause girls don't like shy guys hun i am a women and my man was shy at first but i broke him of that within a day and now we are engaged to be married and it has been 2 years. be a man and talk to her.
2006-09-12 12:56:05 · answer #10 · answered by Da Q 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋