I have met quite a few guys in last few years and i just don't know how to pick out a good one. The player type guys say all the same things as the ones that end up being decent. Is there anyway of figuring this out quickly instead of being silly and believing them and being disappointed.
I find myself thinking here we go again when i hear the lines I've never felt this way before. What if this happens with a decent one. I lost one guy because i got paranoid and thought he didn't really like me so i kept testing him because i really liked him and didn't want him to be just like the others.
2006-09-12 12:31:49 · 18 answers · asked by innocenteyes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If a guy stays around after a night without sex then he is a maybe. If he goes without sex for a week then it could be serious. If he goes without it for a month then he could be the one. If he goes without sex for a year then he is gay!
If you want to know more then watch Ally McBeal. It is the Bible of relationship issues.
2006-09-12 12:38:11 · answer #1 · answered by Dominic N 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There you go...Testing again! It is a fundemental part of the womans ritual. Does he fit in this box, does he fit in that box, he almost fits that box but I can change him!!!
Just like swimming when you can't see what's under the surface.
Caution should be accepted and thrown to the breeze! Get in, get wet, splash about and have some fun.
On reflection and to fine tune the point I am making here, You are dead for a VERY, VERY, LONG TIME! Life is shorter than you think. If you are lucky you might get to have fun over twenty five years but, then your looks start to fade and the body starts to accommodate Gravity. So go get wet :D
2006-09-12 15:13:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love the way men and women continue to play all these stupid mind games even though they both swear they wish it were different.
A wise man once wrote "there is no greater bravery in lfe than to stand naked in front of another person and confess your love to them" (i'm not suggesting you actually get naked it's a metaphor)
Do it. Take a chance with those you love and be a brave enough human being to accept not everyone will return the emotion. Eveything else is a waste of yout mother "£$%ing time.
Dominic N: Give me a break! Ally McWho!!??
2006-09-12 12:47:07 · answer #3 · answered by munkydogg 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hmm...isn't there a book on this??
ok so you've jus gotta go with your instinct, unfortunately life is gonna throw some assholes at you, If theres a guy you really like jus give it a chance the difference with the non decent guys is they always drop themselves in it sooner or later, dont keep testing though cos if they're a decent guy they're gonna get sick of it soon.
Everyone has their share of bad experiences
2006-09-12 12:44:22 · answer #4 · answered by RoKo U.S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can tell very easy, make sure you get him to pay for your date, at the end of the night a kiss is sufficient, make sure he has your cell number, if he calls and asks you out again well 9 out of 10 times he's decent.?
2006-09-12 13:04:33 · answer #5 · answered by pedro 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time with them. Don't give in straight away, and if they give you grief for it tell them to piss off. the nice guys are the ones who don't drag you up stairs or fondle you as soon as no one's looking. Maybe you find guys in the wrong places?
2006-09-12 12:39:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunt for honesty. The decent ones will have nothing to loose.
2006-09-12 13:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Philip_K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give them what they want and if they stick around they are there for you and not the sex. Good guys do wait and want girls who are willing to wait.
2006-09-12 12:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by TheMightyOne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give every guy a chance to prove himself. time would tell. no games pls. he cannot hide forever. his indecency would come out eventually. just give them the benefit of the doubt.
2006-09-12 12:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by kennma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don´t test, but take your time, allowing a month to pass before you have sex.
2006-09-12 12:33:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋