Ok, here is the deal. See, my best friend that I have know for a long time really likes this guy in one of our classes. She really really likes him and thinks he is really cute (which I also agree, but I dont like him AS MUCH as she does). He has also made it clear to people he dont like her (I dont think she knows or she might, dont know) He knows she likes him and he totally takes advantage of her (not serious, just when she has food, candy or somethin he always wants all of it, and she usually lets him). But lately, he has been flirting with me a lot and he talks to me about his life and school and just all around more than my friend. I think she is getting mad at me for him flirting with me, but it isnt my fault. I sort of like him too, but she doesnt know that and I dont like him as much as her (I only like him like a little bit, like a friendly crush lol). What should I do, or does he like me? I do not want to loose my friend over this guy, but I dont know what to do. Any advice?
2006-09-12 12:17:21 · 3 answers · asked by Kelly J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The flirting with me isnt really serious, but he is a really great guy (like he is sweet and not just obsesed with a girls body and all). He also is really nice and smart. One of the reasons she likes him. lol.
But see, he doesnt like her AT ALL and I think she knows it. She also doesnt care obviously cause she still likes him.
2006-09-12 12:17:54 · update #1
talk to her and ask her if she's upset at you for him talking to you. tell her that it's not your fault that he talks to you, and you don't want to be rude to him, so you also talk to him. tell her that you wish she didn't let him mooch off of her, because you really care about her and want her to be able to eat her own food without being bothered by him.
also, if you can (without your best friend seeing and thinking that you're trying to go out with him) ask him why he doesn't like her. ask him not to use her for her food. tell him that you care very much for your friend, and you don't want to talk to him as much anymore if he can't be nice to your friend.
(i hope that helps somehow)
2006-09-12 12:25:06 · answer #1 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, why are you and your bff such good friends with this guy? He is obviously not being a good friend to either of you. To give him the benefit of the doubt, he may simply be enamored with having close relationships with two appealing ladies and trying to see how far y'all will let him go. Whether you both sit him down and spell it out for him, or show him through your actions, don't let him get away with it! Love him enough (as a friend) to stop his harmful behavior.
2006-09-12 19:30:07 · answer #2 · answered by Abby L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He also takes advantage of women in ways he has already shown you.
Great taste. Pass THOSE genes on.
2006-09-12 19:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by A Box of Signs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋