I have been seeing my friends brother who I knew casually before.
Things were going great.....he took me to a nice dinner, and we have good conversation--- he spent the first couple of weeks calling alot, and spending time w/ me.
When he left to be away at school for a few weeks, he left me a rose with a note saying how nice it had been, and how he couldn't wait to see me soon... He told his family how he felt too....(heard from his sister)
So, since I feel the same I was so excited. For the first week or so, he would call or text every day, or almost every day...it was nice. So, since he had left me the rose and note, I sent him a homemade card just to say that I missed him...I thought it was soo cute, and couldn't wait for him to get it!
So, he got my card, and called to say thank-you-- said he really liked it. Then I didn't hear from him for three days--that was new.
So, I called, and we talked for awhile- it was ver positive.
Now I've heard nothing for days again...??
2006-09-12 12:02:48 · 6 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
We're in our mid-twenties....he's finishing up his last year in grad school....it won't be long distance for long, and he will be home every two weeks in the meantime...also he's asked me casually to come out there..... thing is, it seems like things are just suddenly falling off..... should I be concerned?? Too soon in the relationship to flat out ask him or not??
2006-09-12 12:05:15 · update #1
First of all, don't panic. The guy has already gone to some pretty great lengths to be sweet and keep in touch if three days without word seems unheard of. Grad school is difficult and takes a lot of time, so there's a good chance he got caught up in a project or paper or test and hasn't had as much time to talk to you.
Instead of worrying that he hasn't called you and jumping to conclusions that he's not interested, call him. He might be thinking that he's putting out all of the effort to call you and wondering if you're not as interested as he is.
But really, these are just if's and might's and maybe's. You can wait around forever worrying and theorizing about what might be going on in his head, or you could talk to him and ask and know for sure. He'll appreciate your honesty and openness if you're willing to tell him what you're thinking and feeling--and he'll answer your questions with the only answer that really matters... his. Because only he really knows what's going on in his head. There's no such thing as too early to ask him questions about what he's thinking, but there is a such thing as too late.
2006-09-12 12:25:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he is really occupied with something and has no time, or emotinal space left to think about anyone else, and if his record in the past has been as good as you say, then hes not leaving you, that type of person would tell you straight if he wants out of a relationship.
HE's probally hoping you'll understand why he cant call
2006-09-12 19:08:37 · answer #2 · answered by Alex G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.. i would not get worryed yet just ask him...tell him how you feel about him not calling you.See what he says and go from there. hope eveything works out!
2006-09-12 19:11:41 · answer #3 · answered by **Wishing For A 2010 Baby** 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you asked him why he didn't call? have you tried to call him?
you might want to try that to get your answer...
2006-09-12 19:06:01 · answer #4 · answered by jenn w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him
2006-09-12 19:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok
2006-09-12 19:04:16 · answer #6 · answered by Joe 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋