if you are in a relationship (bf + gf) is it ok to look at other guys and think they are cute???? but like not take it any farther than that just noticing them
2006-09-12 11:55:57 · 20 answers · asked by bball_rox_lots 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think it's fine. Just because you're going out with someone doesn't mean you stop being sexually attracted to other people. As long as it doesn't go any further and your bf/gf doesn't have an issue with it, I think it's alright.
2006-09-12 11:59:10 · answer #1 · answered by a_soft_world 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's okay to look, just don't disrespect your partner if you just so happen to be in this person's company. Like everyone else said it's natural to look. And I'm quite sure that you have come across someone who is quite more attractive(oops, I mean this other person that you're referring to) than the boyfriend and maybe had thoughts that you (or the other person) would rather not share with the boyfriend, which is also okay. you are entitled to look out and see other people's beauty and appreciate it without it being offensive to anyone.
2006-09-12 19:06:25 · answer #2 · answered by justeasin' 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it's OK to look.
Wow ... if people never looked, then Hollywood would be out of business!!!!
Being in a committed relationship and finding another person attractive is totally normal. For goodness sake ... do you have a dog or cat ... if so ... is it ok to find another dog or cat attractive??? Of course!!!
Don't get all hung up on society telling you that thinking about another person is just as bad as actually acting on the thought or impulse. It's not!!!
In fact ... fantasizing about another person can actually add a spark to your current relationship.
If you are committed to someone ... then you are committed to them totally ... not just their looks. So looking at another person, or finding another person attractive is not cheating ... it's just appreciating something you find beautiful.
Enjoy it and don't let it bother you ... or your friend!!!
2006-09-12 19:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by JUSTKT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely; this is the time of exploration, and you would be stupid to be exclusionary at such a yo0ng age!
It's most unlikely that you will spend the rest of your life with some bf/gf you know in 6th grade, so keep looking until you know, for sure, that you are in love with the one and only!
2006-09-12 18:59:35 · answer #4 · answered by seeitmiway32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's comparable to discontinue looking at anything you personally find appealing including an attractive face. Trying to keep your eyes averted from a face and seeming that youre still interested or understanding of the conversation is nearly impossible. How would you ever watch t.v. or movies?
2006-09-12 19:01:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it's OK because you only think there cute. i doesn't mean you like that person. you say that person looks good and that's all. no more than a nice comment. anyways the opposite sex always attracts you. it's a natural instinct.
2006-09-12 19:04:11 · answer #6 · answered by salvi_stephy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its ok its when you start purchasing that you will have a problem lets face it everyone window shops its in our nature just dont blurt it out to your partner that your doing it as they may not like it and it can also be hurtfull to them .
2006-09-12 19:03:34 · answer #7 · answered by bibidiboo1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's Human Nature to look.
2006-09-12 18:58:19 · answer #8 · answered by david r 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Every one dose, it's called being human! All will look until they die! Some lie about it and some of us tell the truth!
2006-09-12 18:59:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think "Window Shopping" is perfectly ok. but most guy will get upset if your drooling over another man
2006-09-12 18:59:02 · answer #10 · answered by Russell C 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋