what i gave him or he will do something that is more expensive gift then what i gave him or bring me to a more grand place then where i brought him to? Is this ego? What happen if in the future i have a better job then him and earning more money then him would that crush his ego and he going to feel bad or just loss self esteem?
2006-09-12 11:20:12 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ lavender baby ♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if you say he not gracious and ego problem how to deal with it? the thing about him is he thinks alot of things for me and so considerate and sooo romantic and kind. but just this flaw about if i were to gave him or do something from him i would predict that he is going to do something more grand then what i did for him.
2006-09-12 11:28:19 · update #1
he super sensitive too tough. he never mention about other girls accept for me and when i mention that his trainer is cute he got a little jealous. is this bad? but we made up that day it self. i just want to know in long run would this be bad?
2006-09-12 11:31:32 · update #2
He is too competitive and not gracious at all. Real ego problem.
2006-09-12 11:22:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I believe it is his ego that made him feel this way. You can't simply change him overnight. Youhave to tell him the fact that he must be able to accept certain things in life. What you worry is correct. In future when you have a better job and earning more money, I think both of you will start to quarrel alot more often which is not healthy in any relationship.
He seems to be very possessive of you too. To me being too possessive is not very healthy too coz when you start to work you have chances to deal with other males colleagues, he may feel jealous and start to quarrel with you or even your colleague. So I suggest that you should be frank with him on how you think on his behaviour. Give yourself and your bf sometime to settle this out.
2006-09-13 11:39:45 · answer #2 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like that. Besides, what consitutes a gift being "the best." I find that more creative gifts or surprises mean a lot more and usually have no price tag. Do something like that. You can't buy something better than that.
2006-09-12 18:26:47 · answer #3 · answered by ineedalotofyou 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My boyfriend was the same way....I Finlay had enough a blew up at him over it..He told me that it's just something in guys where they have to be the best...I let him, and the whole neighborhood for that matter, know that it buggs me and he stopped it for the most part..
2006-09-12 18:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't sweat the petty stuff hun...just be glad he aint useing you
2006-09-12 18:24:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to treat you as youre treating him...don't knock it! Enjoy it~
2006-09-12 18:26:30 · answer #6 · answered by Margaret 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋