Once a cheater always a cheater? Or can it just be a one time mistake?
2006-09-12 11:13:33 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You only cheat on someone because you are willing to risk loosing them. When you find the perfect man/woman you are not willing to risk loosing them. Cheating is always a symptom of a bigger problem. Something must be missing in the relationship, and the cheater is looking to fill the missing space. I personally don't think anything can kill a relationship quicker than doubt, and we all know cheating creates doubt. Not many people can honestly live with the doubt after cheating occurs. Forgiving is much much easier to do than forgetting. Whether the person cheats again or not, it's usually the victim of the cheating that ends the relationship because they can't forget what their partner did to them. I'm afraid I would be one of those people, I'd have to move on and find someone who was not willing to risk loosing me. I take my commitments very seriously, and I would demand the same from my partner.
2006-09-12 11:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by Cynthia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the person and the circumstance behind it. been there before and some people really do change, where others are once a cheater always, a cheater
2006-09-12 11:15:52 · answer #2 · answered by shay 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a cheater, it is definitely possible to change. Sometimes, temptation strikes, but if he/she chooses to hop in the sack with someone else, then obviously you have some problems with your relationship. However, the person may have cheated because they feel as though you aren't the one and they are too afraid to say it. I've been in this position before! You just need to sit down and talk with him/her and find out if they cheated because they haven't grown up yet or if they're cheating because they're truly unhappy with the relationship.
2006-09-12 11:17:28 · answer #3 · answered by Lis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe that people can change and I don't think that a person should be labeled a cheater if, he or she just slipped up one time.
2006-09-12 11:16:17 · answer #4 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always a cheater
2006-09-12 11:14:26 · answer #5 · answered by gabby 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
once a person cheats,,,,that primal fear of how you would feel afterwards and being caught is over, making it easier to cheat and not feel so horrible about it. that's why they say once a cheater always a cheater
2006-09-12 11:16:56 · answer #6 · answered by goldie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was a cheater before I met my husband and I have been with him 10 years and have never strayed so if that tells you anything....
2006-09-12 11:14:48 · answer #7 · answered by joalteeth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a cheater always
2006-09-12 11:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by Romina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it can be more than just one mistake. depends the situation it will either make your relationship stronger . or worse depends how much the 2 of you trust each other and so on. and how long the 2 of you been together if over 5 years id say stay with it and work on it if less dump it move on
2006-09-12 11:16:53 · answer #9 · answered by rocs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheater once, cheater twice, cheater again and again!
2006-09-12 11:15:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋