She used to be lesbian. Now since she's been with me, she doesn't look at women anymore (for real). Problem is, despite being lesbian, she used to flirt a lot with men, partly to confuse her family so they'll never guess she is lesbian. So now, although she's not lesbo anymore, she still "enjoys" flirting with men, and while doing so, she doesn't tell them she has a boyfriend. She says it's just a hunting game she likes, and that's all there is to it. Should I believe her?
2006-09-12 11:07:57 · 28 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Flirting CAN be harmless, but it sounds like your girl NEEDS to do it to feel desired and good about herself, as some sort of ego boost. If that's the subconscious motivation behind it, how can you be so sure where she's going to draw the line?
2006-09-14 21:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by tabasc_oh 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ditch her, she's a waste of space by the sound of it. She clearly doesn't care about your feelings when she plays her mindless hunting games. Its not right fr anyone to do that, whether they're a guy a girl, straight or gay. Guess she can enjoy her games even more with more time on her hands if u dump her. Find someone who will treat you right.
2006-09-12 12:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait, hold on, there are good reasons to flirt when your in a committed relationship and nobody told me ?? Come on dude, whatever her reasons, its not right. So she's been confused and now you have to pay the price with a disrespectful gf ? We all "enjoy" doing things but that doesn't mean they are appropriate or right to do.
2006-09-12 11:14:41 · answer #3 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the new has wore off for her and she wants her cake and eat it too. She likes how it feels when they come on to her. One thing always leads to another. First flirting then cheating. Dump the girl she isn't worth the trouble. Trust me the heartache will only get worse. Save yourself get rid of her.
2006-09-12 11:51:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-14 22:37:16 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirting is harmless, but go with your gut instinct, if you think she's playing you, and using you to confuse her family, then dump her. I would say she is most likely to cheat on you with another girl, if she is going to cheat.
All the best with your decisions.
2006-09-12 11:12:14 · answer #6 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Had a wife like that. It didn't last. She finally stepped out on me, and by the time she reconsidered, I just couldn't stomach the relationship anymore. Too much pain.
2006-09-12 11:10:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you really do trust her and yo know what type of person she ids then i guess you should!a part that she was a leso,every person loves flertin even if they have a bf/gf!its just in nature!listen its only flertin its not like shes you know havin ### with them?so just tell her go flirt around all you want and then come home and do me!im sure you wouldnt mind and like flertin around other women!just remmember its just flerting!good luck
2006-09-12 11:13:38 · answer #8 · answered by victoria k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really sounds like that girl ahs no respect for you after reading this and your last question dont you think you deserve better tell her to get lost and find a real woman that will love and take care of you
2006-09-12 11:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Who does she go home with?" If it is always you, ignore it. If you have doubts about her loyalty and fidelity-that is another matter.
But, as above, if she spends her time with you and doen't go home with those she flirts with-it sounds like she is Ok with you. We, all men and women "LOOK" and often flirt but it only means we are healthy, normal, sexual human beings.
2006-09-12 11:14:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋