Im racking my brain to figure out if I should ask out one of the 2 girls I have in mind and if I should ask them.The 1st girl I met this year,and she's nice and we talk alot. The 2nd girl is a girl I've known for 1 year,and thoughout that year we didnt like each other all the time. But now its better and I dont know if ill get rejected or not.
2006-09-12 11:06:56 · 14 answers · asked by thats it 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
judging by your description, ask the first one...the second one sounds like she gave you some trouble already so she might do it again, you never know...the first one seems like a better choice and if she doesn't say yes then you can ask the second one if you feel comfortable doing so. if not, then explore your other options and maybe someone else will turn up
2006-09-12 11:11:11 · answer #1 · answered by ttizzle999 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, nobody in the world likes anybody all the time. If you want to ask this girl out, go for it. Remember, rejection is not an indication that something is wrong with you! If she has other plans for that night, didn't you say you have two girls in mind? I hope you have fun at the dance.
2006-09-12 18:12:45 · answer #2 · answered by june clever 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask the one that you met this year, especially because you like her more, sounds like conflicts might arise with the plans that you make that night with the one you didn't like at one point or another, and if anything, if you do get rejected, ask the other. To be honest though, you'll probably have more fun if you go solo and just hang with your friends, that way you wont be torn between your friends and the chick that you get to say yes, know what I mean?
2006-09-12 18:10:53 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask out the first girl, and if that doesn't work ask the second one. Don't worry about rejection, it's a part of life and you may as well learn that lesson now.
2006-09-12 18:08:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Heres the thing, EVERYONE is afraid of rejection! to me, i find it EXTREMELY attractive that any boy, man, whatever would have that kind of courage to ask me out period!!! The 2nd girl is the girl you should go for, its just awkward to ask some one out who do sent hardly even know you, so the 1st girl is defiantly out! i say, just get the courage, and just GO FOR IT!
2006-09-12 18:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by Darbi R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say ask the first girl. even if the second one doesn't reject you there's always the danger of something going wrong during it and it turning out bad. with the first girl, you don't have to worry about that.
2006-09-12 18:11:28 · answer #6 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try asking the 1st girl since you already enjoy her company.
2006-09-12 18:16:18 · answer #7 · answered by kagome9854 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it looks like you like the first one better, so go ask her and have a better night with her. but don't be afraid of rejection, life goes on.
2006-09-15 22:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by TUTU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the one that you talk to alot.
2006-09-12 18:08:44 · answer #9 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask out witch one you liike better
and dont be scared just take a chance
2006-09-12 18:10:28 · answer #10 · answered by Haley J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋