This guy was at my job. And you know how you can feel the vibe when somebody likes you, so I felt that vibe with him. So he came up to me and read my name tag, and said Hi, then I want to say what's up to you. And he left becuase he seemed like he was in a rush. But this is not the first time he always say Hi with a huge smile on his face. This particular day he said What's Up, I think by him saying is slang for he wants to holla. Does this mean he just want sex or a relationship?
2006-09-12 10:59:02 · 20 answers · asked by incredible 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also he kind of looks like a thug.
2006-09-12 11:18:24 · update #1
He wants to butter your muffin
2006-09-14 10:29:07 · answer #1 · answered by OMG Help Ricky 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Personally I think you are reading too much into his, "what's up" question. No doubt that maybe he wants to get to know you, the signs are there, but you shouldn't assume he wants sex or a relationship because of one question. Try making it a point of talking to him at every opportunity you see him. Maybe you should ask him if he'd like to hang out one night, like going to a movie out to eat, etc. Don't rush things and definitely don't come off sounding too pushy or eager. Those things will scare him away before you even get to know him. That's how come I suggest the hanging out thing because then it sounds like you just want to hang out with him like you would any other friend you might ask to go do something with. If you guys hit it off, then I'd say it was worth it....Good luck!
2006-09-12 11:06:19 · answer #2 · answered by Lani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, Talk to him a little more & if he wants sex believe me that "vibe" will come across. But even if he wants a relationship he may want sex too . You're the one in control - so even though he thinks he's making the good stuff happen -you're actually calling the shots... so really It's about what you want from the guy. good luck...bye bye
2006-09-12 11:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's just being polite and doesn't even want to holla at you. Just because you feel a vibe does not necessarily mean he does. It could all be in your head ! Just play it cool and see where it goes.
2006-09-12 11:03:35 · answer #4 · answered by smorgan1124 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may just like you and wants to get to know you better. Strike up a conversation with him the next time you see him. If he ask you what's up tell him something that happened to you (not too personal). Something that will make him laugh. Take your time it sounds like he may be a little shy.
2006-09-12 11:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are over-analyzing the situation. He might be after sex, he might be after a relationship or he might just be a nice guy saying hi. Just go with it, if he asks you out, then worry about what's he's after. Until then, why assume anything?
2006-09-12 11:05:44 · answer #6 · answered by Kansas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont read to much in to it i have a part time job at a video store and i get all kinds of cusomers like that. if he really likes you he will say somthing to you, not just hola or hi or how is your day? if he ask you out it is up to the women in how far she wants to take it.
2006-09-12 11:03:48 · answer #7 · answered by Classica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I think it just means he's friendly. If he wanted sex or a relationship he would ask you out.
2006-09-12 11:01:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have huge smile in my pants from your pic
u yummy
and should be a combo option at jack in the box
2006-09-12 11:01:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Hi" means he wants sex. It's all a secret code guys use and women never understand.
Next time he says "hi" say "I want to have your children".
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2006-09-12 11:01:47 · answer #10 · answered by campojoe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he want either at the moment. It sounds like he would just like to start a conversation with you.
2006-09-12 11:01:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋