I am in the Army and I kind of got myself in some trouble. Well not serious but maybe it could be. See, Ive always had anxiety/depression or some form of it my entire life. Its not good. Off again, on again. It never really ends. Anyway, about two months ago an incident happend (Im sure you can imagine, I don't really want to talk about that part) that got me sent to another place where it would be less stressful or whatever. I feel very ebarrassed and ashamed about what happened, and I'm sorry for it. I go home in November, and my obligation is up in February. and, I'm getting out. But I don't know what is going to happen after that. I have a BA in psychology, and I did very well in school. I'm just afraid of so many different things. Is that thing that happened going to follow me forever? Even if it doesn't is there any job out there for me that I can do? I still have a wife and 3-year old to support. But I'm sooo tired of feeling depressed. Its very painful
2006-09-12 10:57:38 · 9 answers · asked by Casey 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hey I am sort of in the same boat you are and yes you can still have a career. It is actually good for you to get out into the world and keep living. I just had to take a leave of absence for about a month and half b/c of my problems. I was worried about the way everyone was going to treat me when I got back, but it actually was fine and everyone was nice. I am also very tired about being depressed. Actually last night was a low night for me. What I did to bring myself back up was to read from a book I have been into. "The Power of NOW" by Eckhart Tolle.
www.EckhartTolle.com
This book is great and it makes me feel good when I read from it. My biggest problem is loneliness. I lost my best friend that I did everything with and talked to everyday. I am getting out and working on getting new friends it is just hard until I am going to actually get there. Try looking at what it is that makes you so depressed and work on it. In the end you just need to know everything will work out for you, the universe will take care of you. It knows what is best for you even if it is not your desired outcome. I know you will be fine, think about your wife and 3-year old and don't be afraid to ask for help.
2006-09-12 11:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by Leighbucks 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think you should continue with the Psych stuff. Did you know most Psychiatrists and Psychologist have some type of mental illness. At least they know what they are talking about. Maybe you could get started by counciling vets.
Hey I was in Afghanistan for a year and a half contracting for the Canadian military and I have seen people loose it. I nearly thought I was going to loose it. And I remember one American guy who had a bad experience and he was a mess. And especially with the US army they send you guys over there for a one year tour, maybe longer with only 2 weeks leave. That is bull. You will get on though. You have people to help you and to help. Go to counciling and take your meds. I was depressed for years and got better. Some times is comes back but having a job and a life will help.
Don't let all the BS bet you. There is nothing you can do now about what happen back there and you won't forget it just don't let IT win. Have a life and help people. You will have to push yourself but eventually it will work.
Seriously hope that everything works out for you.
2006-09-12 11:12:37 · answer #2 · answered by Constant_Traveler 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to speak to a professional and get on some good drugs to balance you out. I personally like my Lexapro but others really like the Zoloft.
But, yes, I think you can still have a career. How about going back to school to finish a masters or PHD in psychology? If you did not want to practice, you could always teach.
Don't limit yourself; think big and go for it! But first, talk to someone and get the counseling and drugs you need for a more balanced outlook.
Best wishes to you and your family.
2006-09-12 11:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by Jmac 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Psychology is a far cry from Psychiatry, so I can understand why you may not be aware of the all the modern treatments available to you for clinical depression. You need to see a psychiatrist for a definitive diagnosis of just what kind of depression you are dealing with, and therefore obtain the most appropriate treatment for that depression.
2006-09-12 11:05:56 · answer #4 · answered by essentiallysolo 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You have a BA in Psychology and don't know if you can get relief from depression?? Just what were they teaching you. You can certainly lead a normal productive life and modern medication is key. It is likely a chemical imbalance, but I feel strange telling that to someone with a BA in Psych.
2006-09-12 11:02:35 · answer #5 · answered by missourim43 6 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes absolutely it is but if you have any suicidal idea please check on with your doctor right know
you can have job and you should have look Mr the are about 15- 30 percent of population with mood disturbance you can work it out .
I am A doctor but i do not know your age and medication .sorry but you can contact me by my email
2006-09-12 11:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by mohammad g 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be a comedian, research Jim Carey.
2006-09-12 11:02:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
me- RN
son-College professor
both with life long clinical depression...
we take our meds and chose to live a "normal" life
2006-09-12 11:04:09 · answer #8 · answered by Mopar Muscle Gal 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
yes you are lacking a very important mineral known as vitamin B..
2006-09-12 11:00:36 · answer #9 · answered by net385 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋