I was supposed to leave this place last month, but my girlfriend asked me to stay and I've pushed my trip twice already. Now, since then, my girlfriend hasn't been as good as she was when she thought I was leaving. She was really good then, and now it seems that she doesn't care and doesn't seem to appreciate the fact that I stayed more just for her. What do you think?
2006-09-12 10:57:34 · 11 answers · asked by curious 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She sucks!
2006-09-12 10:59:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should book your trip again, and this time go, if she starts being nice to you again, be strong and walk away, and do what you've got to do, I think she's taking the pee with you as she doesn't want you to go really, but then she can't be nice all the time to you either.
Just go, and get on with it. If your only young, and if she loves you she will still be here when you get back.
Have a good trip.
2006-09-12 11:09:23 · answer #2 · answered by bizzybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her that you stayed longer for her and that she needs to appreciate that fact and if she don't care and if she don't change back to the way she use to be then you will get another flight asap and you wont stay longer this time.
2006-09-12 11:02:16 · answer #3 · answered by Aira 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We only want what we can't have. Your girlfriend doesn't really want you or she wouldn't mess with your feelings in this way. When we love someone we never try to hurt them. As soon as you threaten to leave, she will want you again, but things will never get any better because she doesn't even see your feelings in all of this. It would be far better to let her go and move on to someone who really wants you, body AND soul
2006-09-12 11:03:25 · answer #4 · answered by pamperpooch39 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like a star, considering what you've done for her. It sounds to me that you need to air your feelings, if there's no consideration from her then there's nothing you can do. There's nothing worse than being unappreciated. Make her know how you feel & what you've done, she sounds terribly ungrateful!
Good luck, star man!
2006-09-12 11:10:13 · answer #5 · answered by devon lass 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the reason why she doesn't want you to come back is because she is trying to get a boyfriend and probably have a boyfriend already.
2006-09-12 11:03:33 · answer #6 · answered by Symbolic User 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Now shes expecting you to kiss her behind at her whim.
Go on your trip now.
2006-09-12 11:01:05 · answer #7 · answered by JC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont bother with her, leave and get on with your life. If she follows, great, if not move on.
2006-09-13 00:01:36 · answer #8 · answered by Richard C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your very nice to do that, i wish i had someone like you my man went away last week and he could not wait 2 week so i could go with him
2006-09-12 11:01:35 · answer #9 · answered by destiny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's taking you for granted already.
Ask her about it, so what she has to say.
I think its nice that you've done what you have for her.
2006-09-12 11:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Sereniti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋