I Like this guy named Zane Miller... and he is in 8th grade and he goes to church, but I want to say something to him, but I don't want to sound stupid, or desperate. But I want to say something to him. But I really want him to say something to me, is there any way of going about that?
A little about myself: I am in 7th grade I go to church and that is where I saw him. I am 5'5 (he is like 5'3 or 5'4) I'm shy around him, but I am loud and crazy with my freinds, and I don't know how to find out if he likes me.
2006-09-12 10:57:26 · 17 answers · asked by Britt 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just say Hi and smile. Start a conversation by saying something about school and see if you can keep it going. A conversation with someone you don't know is a bit like a game of ping pong and the idea is to keep the ball going. Just like a conversation. Always use open ended questions(ones that require more than a yes/no answer).
Good Luck.
2006-09-12 11:04:38 · answer #1 · answered by teulonbranchlibrary 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all you should be yourself.If you're going to end up with him he's going to want to meet the real you.Just go up to him and say hello and introduce yourself.Start asking him questions about himself.Guys like it when you girs go up to them first.They're sor of cowards so they'll be thankful.You never know unless you try.Wand if that doesn't work remember your in the eith grade and you have your whole life to live.Best wishes
2006-09-12 18:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Wise woman 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go up to him and say "Hi.. what do you think of the music?"
Talk about the church service or find out if he'll be going to the next youth event. If he acknowledges you, you're in! 8th grade boys are usually just as nervous to talk to a girl.
You're a girl and like to talk....findout about what interests him and talk about it. Just be a friend and not too chattery (meaning let them talk about something too)....my boys couldn't stand that about a girl. You'll do fine....just be you. It'll work out if its supposed to.
2006-09-12 18:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Julie W 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yo first of all you need to confront him and be like. Yo wassup. If he says hi back then start a convorsation. Make sure you are in an appropriate place though. Try talking to him after church.
-Word it up!
2006-09-12 17:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Paul S 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
well have u ever tlaked to him before??
if u havnt heres somthin that usually works (i'm in seventh to)
well u like after chruch if u have like somone u talk to in chruch well go talk to them like u would usually get like really hyper and be like hiiiii and wink at him really funnying as in a joke but a little serious and see if reacts and if he says hi back or comes up to u later things should be good
orrrr....
u can have u friend go up to him and say omg my friends think ur really hott.. then u go up to him later and say wow my friend is retarded shes really random but my name is ***** and if u didnt know and find somthing to talk about like whats on his shirt or the brand of his shoes or if he likes the chruch
hope it helps
2006-09-12 18:07:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tailor L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
ok grl to grl advice. say hey wuts up? he'll be like hi im good or something like that there is a start
2006-09-12 18:00:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
start off by asking him a simple question about anything. Act interested in his answer. If he goes into detail, he's interested in you. If he just blows you off, don't waste anymore of your time.
2006-09-12 18:05:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Pretend to drop something while near him and see if he picks it up for you. If you he does thank him and then begin to make conversation with him. This should help you...
2006-09-12 18:02:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ure like 5 years old
2006-09-12 17:59:00 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You want lots and lots of answers, go to the library.
2006-09-12 17:58:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋