I like this guy at school and he is soo cute... but he never seems to like me for me but for someone I pretend to be... how can i get him to like me for me... and not for someone else
2006-09-12 10:16:39 · 11 answers · asked by Juli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just be yourself. Never change yourself for a man, or anybody for that matter.
2006-09-12 10:31:41 · answer #1 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cannot make someone like you. You should "keep it real" and just be yourself. What he is liking is just supeficial and he may not like the real you. The only way to find out is to be yourself and go from there. He's not worth it if he doesnt take you as you are.
2006-09-12 17:20:39 · answer #2 · answered by ~carmie~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't force someone to like you and anyway when the guy finds out you misled him to think you are someone who you really aren't he is probably going to feel lied to and won't like you anyway. If he doesn't like who you are then try to forget him because by focusing on someone like that you are probably missing out on another guy who WOULD like you just the way you are. And wouldn't it just be easier if you didn't have to pretend at all?
2006-09-12 17:20:19 · answer #3 · answered by Beccawho 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to love yourself for you, you should not change yourself for no one, if they do not like how you are, then they have a problem. That means he does not love you, so move on and find someone who loves you. they are out their.
2006-09-12 17:24:38 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself... Stop pretending... It's pointless, anyway... If he doesn't like you, you're just wasting your time - no matter how cute he is... Besides, who else are you...?
2006-09-12 17:22:01 · answer #5 · answered by KnowhereMan 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just quit pretending and see if hes still interested..
2006-09-12 17:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For starters be yourself, and if he doesn't like you then he never really liked you in the first place now did he?
2006-09-12 17:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very easy, be yourself!!! if he likes for what you are, that's fine, if not don't even try to pretend anything!!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 17:21:14 · answer #8 · answered by ahazaa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to be yourself..... and if he doesn't like you for you..then he isn't the right guy for you...
you shouldn't have to pretend!
2006-09-12 17:17:46 · answer #9 · answered by myheartisjames 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be yourself and let him see the 'real' you!
2006-09-12 17:20:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋