We've talked on IM for about a month now, and he's really cool and interesting to talk to..he seems really school-orientated (he's a master's student) and just really... normal. I told him I want to meet, but he says we aren't 'compatible'. Problem is, we still talk and it's sort of getting my hopes up that maybe he's 'falling' for me and that we'll meet one day. By the way, he doesn't have a problem with coming here to have casual sex.. but doesn't think it'll lead anywhere else. I'm not stupid enought to do that, even despite how much I 'like' this guy. Should I try and get him to like me through IM.. or just forget about him caus he already told me how he feels?! Also, please tell me why he still talks to me about even though I've told him that I won't sleep with him casually?
2006-09-12 10:05:38 · 15 answers · asked by kellz8706 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't want you. You shouldn't have slept with him. Now you will be all in love and he will tag your azz. When will women learn to keep their legz closed long enough to find out what a guy is about.
2006-09-12 10:09:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somethings wrong here. He continues to write because he thinks you will eventually have sex with him. Sorry to say ... that's all he's after.
Maybe he's married or has a girlfriend...doesn't really matter.
Please don't get your hopes up and don't be so desperate.
Don't waste any more time on this jerk.
Try and find someone else who would enjoy meeting you and getting to know you as a person. He's out there somewhere:)
2006-09-12 17:21:34 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you have it honey get a clue boo boo. He doesn't want a serious relationship dear heart, he just wants to use you as a cesspool. Move on unless you are just going to be in it for the sex he is not worth it, and he told you right you aren't compatible with him. He is what you want but he is not ready to settle, and don't try waiting around men hate that. Take it for what it is and make a wise decision. Good luck and much love.
2006-09-12 17:12:51 · answer #3 · answered by nina_ross692000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, I understand what you're trying to do - you think that if you talk to him long enough that he would get to know you as a person & want to have a relationship with you.But you know what -the fact that he's ok with casual sex allready shows you his true colors.When sex comes first then that's as far as the "relationship" goes & love doesn't get a chance to blossom. Guys can be charming when they want sex - but that charm is for there own selfish benefit. Your happiness will only come from someone who will love you & care for you . You're a smart girl - you know what he's up to but your heart yearns for love -so must listen to your head because if you listen to your heart he will break it. He's a player so consider youself wiser & move on ...There is someone special out there looking for someone like you - so go looking for him & you will find the true happiness & love that you deserve! Good luck on your journey to find true love...bye bye
2006-09-12 17:33:53 · answer #4 · answered by Danica Fan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy has already told you where he stands and you need to accept that unless you want to continue getting your hopes up and getting hurt. He said it himself, all he wants is casual sex. The reason he keeps calling you is, just like yourself, he thinks he's eventually going to make you change your mind and turn you into his booty call, Do yourself a favor and tell this guy to buzz off and concentrate on someone who will treat you like a lady.
2006-09-12 17:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Bridezilla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say you already know your answer to your question..... you know he is only trying to get laid with casual sex, and wants nothing more. You would only be fooling yourself if you continued to try and get this guy to 'fall' for you. Its not going to happen. Chances are.......... he is with somebody and involved already, he just wants a side fling which is really stupid and risky, for one his girl will find out,................ we always do, and for another.......... AIDS, can we all say AIDS? Your best bet is to delete him and block him and find someone new to talk to. This guy smells like trouble from where I am sitting. blessed be.
2006-09-12 17:13:05 · answer #6 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't want to be anything more then "friends with benefits". You have told him you will not have sex with him but he feels since you like him so much you will come around and have sex with him. But he has no interested in you other then sex.
2006-09-12 17:09:43 · answer #7 · answered by sweetie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh Good Lord, honey, the guy has a live-in girlfriend or he's married. You can't possibly be that dumb! He told you he's not interested in anything but screwing. If you persue it from there, your stupid as a rock. Godloveya!
2006-09-12 17:09:02 · answer #8 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is casual sex in yahoo answers? I thought the fake points were the rewards!
2006-09-12 17:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
The problem with match.com is that to many people lie. I know a lady that is on that site and her profile is full of lies. I went on and disguised who I was and she told me all kinds of things about herself that I know are all lies. That is a big problem with those kinds of sites. have fun with them, but LOVE???? no way. It sounds like He's a phony!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 17:10:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋