I've been with my boyfriend for three and a half years. I lov ehim so much and I'm very happy with him, but I'm afraid that someday I can find out he's not the right guy. How do I know if he really is THE ONE and it's not just a long relationship that will end?!?!
2006-09-12 09:36:37 · 17 answers · asked by girl-06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask yourself questions: Are you REALLY happy? Can you imagine life w/out him? Does it make you sad when you can't see him for a long period of time? Do you catch yourself thinking about him throughout the day? ...you'll figure it out. Good luck!
2006-09-12 09:38:45 · answer #1 · answered by Swaygirl27 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Realtionships are risky and adventurous, you have to be ready for everything and commitment too.. You have to take chances and be prepared for all outcome. Hope for the best and try to work through the worst, life is not going to be easy rather challenges we will face... If you have been with this guy for three years then that is the answer right there. It is meant to be not just some game of over in the end... Three years is a long time and I think he is the one... Good luck
2006-09-12 09:40:27 · answer #2 · answered by mary 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no 'right guy' or 'wrong guy.' Relationships are made, not created.
My wife and I were not 'right' for each other, but you know what, after 18 years, we are 'right' for each other.
By the way - why have you been with your boyfriend for 3-1/2 years? Isn't that a bit of a long time? When are you guys getting married?
FP
2006-09-12 09:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by F. Perdurabo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and see what happens if he is the right guy for you will know in time and if not than just go find another one and try again and remember the good times you had with him while it lasted. You meet everyone for a reason there are reasons you let people into your life.
2006-09-12 09:43:53 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel Bitchface 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If He Got A Good Paying Job; And Everytime You Look AT Him;You Think Of Having 10 children
2006-09-12 09:39:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u just know if he's one and three and a half years is a long time. if your happy and in love then there is no need to question it. and if you do break up in a few years then it wasn't meant to be but don't get bent out of shape over it. just enjoy. and i hope that this guy is the one and you last forever.
2006-09-12 09:39:30 · answer #6 · answered by A New Mrs 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wouldn't have to ask others. You would just know. If you guys have been going out for 3 years now and every thing is still going great and you still love him just as much and he feels the same way..then I would say you may have a good thing.
2006-09-12 09:41:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty much all relationships are going to end. If you've made it 3 years, he's probably as close to the one as you're going to find. However, if you're doubting, there must be a reason
2006-09-12 09:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by Jan S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all... you have that problem with the spacebar too?
and second of all... If you are really with the right guy, you have to know he's there for you as much as you are for him. Are you affectionate? If not, then it ain't working. You have to be sweet, kind, loving, caring, trustworthy, and thoughtful of each other. If you follow all those, then you're set.
2006-09-12 09:42:49 · answer #9 · answered by falloutboyfreak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know after three years and if you're questioning your relationship, then he's not the right guy.
2006-09-12 09:37:47 · answer #10 · answered by monkiegirl37 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋