I really like my bf but he always makes me mad we're always thinking opposite on everything we get mad all the time and well is that love or is that waisting each others time?? Yeah we have our good times but mostly we have bad times! What is it??
2006-09-12 09:27:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The big question is "waht are both of your long term goals?" If they are the same goals but you have different opinions on how to achieve them then you need to see how much each of you is willing to compromise. If you are willing to do that then you can overcome the little arguments.
Good Luck!
2006-09-12 09:30:53 · answer #1 · answered by Billy! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it feels so right when you know it's so wrong.
Sometimes it feels so wrong when you really think it's right.
There was a story of a black man who was born and raised in rural Japan. This man went to the Japanese schools, spoke fluent Japanese and although he knew he was different, he never realized just how different he was until that fateful day when he first left Japan at age 16. His world was pretty much turned upside down at that point. Amazing to most. A freak to others.
The point is he really didn't realize things were that "out of the ordinary" until others compared him to what a "normal" black person should be like. Right or wrong, that's just the way it is sometimes.
Your environment, upbringing and surroundings have a lot more affect on your life than you realize sometimes. See if that's the case with you. And good luck with the "boyfriend".
2006-09-12 09:38:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sin™ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you generally happy? Do you want to be with him? Does he make you happy enough to trump all the bad times?
If you are asking this question I think you know that you are probably wasting each other's time. A relationship will have its ups and downs. But you shouldn't spend a majority of your time fighting. If the downs outweigh the ups then move on....
2006-09-12 09:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by kristina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you said it yourself it is mostly bad times. That is not love. You can care a lot for a person but not be compatible with them. You need to decide if it is worth the time for the two of you to stay together just to disagree.
2006-09-12 09:30:55 · answer #4 · answered by jusme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you mostly have bad times but you still really like him then maybe you should try breaking it off for a while and then if you both still want to try again.
2006-09-12 09:30:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you mostly have "bad times" why would you want to stay in the relatiosnship??? Im sure you like him but constantly disagreeing and arguing etc......well thats not a good thing at all.
2006-09-12 09:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A classic example of "opposite attracts". concentrate on the "good times" rather than the bad and you will be fine.
2006-09-12 09:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by This is me now 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Love means never having to say you're sorry. Don't you want to be around someone that makes you both happy all the time?You're trying to keep him around for reasons other than true love. Are you trying to impress someone?
2006-09-12 09:32:18 · answer #8 · answered by roppster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there are more bad times than good times then get another boyfriend who makes you feel good.
2006-09-12 09:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Alej 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think every body has a bf/gf because wants to feel better than alone...
if you feel better alone than with him, the solution is in your hands.
If he don't want to reconsider it after your advice, i think you're loosing time that you could enjoy with another one.
I wish you a happy life
2006-09-12 09:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by grangenio 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋