My ex-boyfriend was killed 7 years ago. We have a child together. His brother and I are have been friends throughout the years. Over time our friendship has grown and I am really considering being in a serious relationship with him. It wasn't until recently that I even "considered" this. What do you think?
2006-09-12 09:27:04 · 12 answers · asked by delicious 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People date their ex's siblings all the time.... There's nothing wrong with this in my opinion. My uncle is married to his brother's ex (my other uncle) and they have a wonderful marriage and three cute, smart, goofy but well-adjusted kids. I guess people are weirded out by the fact that your ex is dead, but if he were still alive, it would be the same thing: perfectly fine if you two feel the same about each other. But you never mentioned whether the brother feels the same about you. If he does, then I say let love prevail. If not, find someone else (particularly one not related to your ex). Good luck. Just make sure your child is raised in a loving and healthy environment no matter your decision.
2006-09-12 09:56:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-08 07:01:59 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,
That is hard to say. Can you live with the gossip? This is your life and your feelings, what others say or think is temporary. You two have alot of history and being friends could be the best thing or expressing your feelings could sabotage everything, just be careful but don't make your choice on what others think or say because that is TEMPORARY
good luck, take care
2006-09-12 09:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by momma whitley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think there would be anything wrong with it...it would also be good in a way because it's someone your child can be close to and that you know will take care of him/her...make sure it's what you both want though and dont ruin the relationship you have if it's something that wouldn't work out
2006-09-12 09:36:18 · answer #4 · answered by KrIsTyN 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if you think you have a future with him you should go for it. It has been seven years, you should move on and you deserve to be happy with whoever you like. It's great that you can still be part of his family and that's great for your child too.
2006-09-12 09:31:31 · answer #5 · answered by girl-06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW this is a tough one. On one hand I would say no way, yet if you truly care for eachother then you have to follow your heart and do whats best for yourself and your child!
2006-09-12 09:34:39 · answer #6 · answered by christine a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to here about your ex,however it seems weird to date his brother even though he's dead. then what if things progress and you all get serious and get married,then your child's uncle would be their step father and uncle. i wouldn't do it. however back in biblical times they did ti all the time. it doesn't seem right to me
2006-09-12 09:33:40 · answer #7 · answered by queen2be 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2015-09-28 01:08:15 · answer #8 · answered by Caren 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a movie date the bro if u think u love him
hope i helped
Kay Kay
2006-09-12 09:30:10 · answer #9 · answered by im lost come and find me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is SO wrong. Your child is going to see you smooching his/her uncle!?!
So nasty! dont do it.
2006-09-12 09:30:41 · answer #10 · answered by Melia 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋