He lied, cheated, he was the one who said that we should be friends. Why does he still call me (it's been over a month since we've been broken up). I told him I don't want to be friends with him. Is he trying to ease back into my life?
2006-09-12 09:16:17 · 33 answers · asked by Beyonce K 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
more than likely he is either trying to get back into your life because he realizes he is wrong and wants to gain you back or he wants to know what is going on in your life for his benefit. I say just keep ignoring him and go on with your life. Dont answer his calls and you should be fine, maybe a little annoyed, but none the less better than you would be if you were with him still!
2006-09-12 09:20:12 · answer #1 · answered by art_angel_86 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like it. For we never really stop loving another for the reasons we fell in love with them, but for all the other things we learn about them that we do not like, and which become a greater repulsion, than the love attraction. So he still loves you in the ways he loves you, even though it sounds as if he doesn't understand what love is all about. For love is also caring about not making your mate sad. If you want nothing further to do with him, then simply hang up on him every time he calls, without saying a word to him. He'll get the picture soon enough.
2006-09-12 09:23:32 · answer #2 · answered by eric l 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah i think he is trying to ease back into your life... But you shouldn't allow it... My co-worker has his ex still call him and send dirty pictures of herself to him... and she did the same thing to him lied and cheated... It's been 3 years since they had broken up and My co-worker is currently dating a better girl.... But in his case doesn't have the heart to tell his ex to leave him truly alone... so if you want your ex to bug you forever Call it quits with him... tell him to leave you alone for good... Call him out on the things that he did to you that hurted you so much... good luck
2006-09-12 09:21:52 · answer #3 · answered by Vampireme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, he is. And if you give him an inch he's going to take a mile and you'll end up hurt all over again. Perhaps you should change your number and make sure not to give it to anyone that will pass it onto him. If he's calling your mobile phone...go into your settings and set his ringer to none and you'll never hear the phone ring when he calls. When you go to your voice-mail...as soon as you know he's the one leaving a message...delete it before hearing it so you wont be tempted to respond to him...Shut him out. Eventually he'll get the idea.
2006-09-12 09:25:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it seems to me that he still like u maybe he realize the mistake he did now that he doesnt have u he realize what he lost and he want to get it back befor some one else beats him if he cheated on u poor him cuz i dont see any chances of u getting back with him plus if he a lier
2006-09-12 09:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by Beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might feel guilty about the way he treated you and is trying to make up for it now. I think he's just trying to make things better between you and him. By the sounds of it, it's too late for thatl. You just got to tell him to stop calling you and that things aren't going to be the way they were before. I think he's trying to keep a hold of something that's already gone. Just be polite and tell him that you don't really like it when he calls you. I hope this helps!
2006-09-12 09:22:38 · answer #6 · answered by peek a boo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as if he wants you to be there when he's lonely, maybe a little booty if he can get some while trying to get into some other girl's pants. So, yes I think he's keeping you around for backup. So ignore this dude and move on. Plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-09-12 09:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably. But dont let him.. I am so happy when I hear girls that break up with cheaters and liars. For some its so hard to do.
Your ignoring him and he wants what he now cant have. Let him keep chasing, but dont give in. He probably feels comfort in you, and wants you to be there for him when he needs it.
You will find what you really deserve. If you do go back then you wont ever be able to trust him anyway.
2006-09-12 09:20:09 · answer #8 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems a guy always wants to stay connected some how even if it is just being friends. I was dating a guy and we broke up and he still wanted to remain friends. I became his friend. He will do any thing for me. Friendship does work out some times.
2006-09-12 09:20:17 · answer #9 · answered by red1967 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he could be or he could just be passing by the time until someone else comes around so he can ruin their lives. Dont fall for anything that he has said. just go out with friends and have a great time.
2006-09-12 09:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Ash 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋