The married person for cheating on their spouse or you for getting in the middle???
2006-09-12 09:13:06 · 49 answers · asked by ? 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Community Service
lol can I just say... this has just happened to my best friend not me!!!
2006-09-13 09:16:06 · update #1
or both of you for wasting time with SLEEP..
2006-09-12 09:17:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're both wrong, there's no more wrong. It's just wrong to sleep with a married person if you are not the spouse. On the other hand if you truly had no idea that at the time the person was married then you were not wrong in becoming intimate with someone you believed to be single.
2006-09-12 09:16:34 · answer #2 · answered by rbsb1999 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes it's funny to be in the middle. Especially, if you're in the middle of the husand and the wife...LOL But, seriously, they are the ones who took wedding vows, so I believe the married person(s) is the most wrong. At the same time, me, the person who's slept with both will get due justice in the end by a high power.
2006-09-12 10:04:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say they both are unless the non married one didn't know that the other was married to begin with. If someone finds out that the other is married & continues to be with the married person, then they both share equal amounts of guilt. But, the married one a little moreso because they Know they are married from the very beginning & shouldn't have started anything with anyone else in the first place
2006-09-12 20:44:43 · answer #4 · answered by yobaby 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If two people sleep together, one knowing the other is married, they are both guilty of knowingly deceiving another. Whilst the unaware married partner is elswhere they are engaging in a moment of frivalous fun that could hurt the spouse and damage them for months or even years. Let's hope that the two willing to take this risk reap what they sew in order to understand the damage that a deceitful fling can cause.
2006-09-12 09:46:08 · answer #5 · answered by SheRah35 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is the married person that is wrong as two victims the the spouse and the third person, it is best to walk away from a situation like that as all will end up very hurt and many regrets on the third party being used.
2006-09-13 01:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by nikota72003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that both of you are in the wrong. You for knowing and still doing it and the spouse for cheating. If you want something else you need to man or woman enough to tell your spouse. Vows are to be took serious.
2006-09-12 09:54:54 · answer #7 · answered by graydavidzack 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait a minute. What if a married woman hasn't seen her husband in YEARS, doesn't want to see him and wants a divorce that she can't afford to pay for but she wants to move on and marry someone else? Is she wrong for moving on without filing the necessary paperwork? Is her new fiance supposed to dump her because she can't pay a lawer to file some papers?
2006-09-12 09:30:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The married person they have made their vows and should stick to them - you cant pick and choose which ones to stick to after you have made them. If you want to sleep with another person there must be a problem with the marriage and that should be addressed before people get hurt.
2006-09-12 09:22:18 · answer #9 · answered by deebee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the situation - you for doing so, if knowingly done, the person you slept with for being unfaithful, and to some extent the spouse for believing that their partner loved/respected them enough to not do such a thing. But I think probably you, for sleeping with them, because you could still walk away, if they still choose to cheat, its their own lives they are messing up (inc. their partners) - you dont get the right to choose to do that
2006-09-12 09:20:40 · answer #10 · answered by Pington 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look what happened to JC's mother, married to Joseph but was still inseminated by god, of all people, therefore it must be ok, no question.
Depends on your point of view, some of devout religious ideals might find it wrong.
As long as he was a good shag I would be happy, and feel no guilt what so ever,
2006-09-13 01:31:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋