ok well basically.
they hate me.
we've been going out 6 months now.
and basically when we eat i get chips thrown at me
and smirky comments the rest of the time
and tbh i really cant put up with it anymore.
i feel if it carries on. he is going to have to go.
the thing that really hurts is that. he doesnt exactly stick up for me...
2006-09-12 09:11:37 · 28 answers · asked by Poise ! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's something to be dealt with...definitely. Firstly, have you told him that his mates are being indecent and disrespectful of you? If you have and he hasn't done anything about it, clearly he doesn't respect you either. If you haven't told him, perhaps you should even though, yes, it seems blatantly obviously. If he doesn't do anything about it and you say that he doesn't stick up for you, well then what on earth could he be thinking?! A girlfriend and friends are either meant to get along with each other or pretend at least. It's common courtesy and if his friends aren't showing you that, he isn't...by the sounds of it...then maybe he doesn't care for you as much as you think he is. So talk to him and if nothing's done, show him the door.
2006-09-12 09:15:27 · answer #1 · answered by @~>--T--<~@ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you need to outsmart them. I have been in this situation before and they sat around me in the pub and took the p out of me because I was an easy target. Then I beat the sh*t out of them on the pool table, that with a few beers got me going with the wit too and now they are very wary and we get on well. The only prob here is though that your boyfriend isn't helping things and this can only be for 1 of 2 reasons - either you are being oversensitive and should just throw a few chips back with ketchup on them or you are just 'another chick' that they know their buddy isn't going to keep around very long. Another possibility is that you don't mention them having chicks around so probably they don't want you around to break the male behaviour thing.
2006-09-12 09:21:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stand up for yourself. It's a pitty your boy doesn't stick up for you. But on the other hand he is stuck between his mates and you. Just go and ask the bloody wankers what the hell is wrong with them. If that don't help Just ignore whatever they say or do.
And try to show you are very much in love with your boy and he si with you. I bet they are all just jealous because they are dateless tossers.
2006-09-12 09:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by peter gunn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then he is not a bf at all. You should really break up with him because if he doesn't have the decency to tell his friends to quit screwing around and treating you that way. But it seems that he just wants to be a lil kid like they are and let them get away with it. Its not his friends that are the problem its him. Find someone better, because no one deserves to be treated like that in the least.
2006-09-12 09:30:47 · answer #4 · answered by Bloody Kisses 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i imagine of you already word of the answer. men love the chase. do not EVER chase men! you'll lose all of them too quick! in case you want him to not take you without interest, disappear even longer this time. Get busy with diverse events outdoors of him. enable him chase you and once you're taking him shrink again, provide up each and every of the texting and calling and so on. it really is a sturdy thanks to maintain dropping him.
2016-11-26 20:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want your relationship to continue , you need to accept that he has friends as well .
they are teasing you ,because you react so strongly.
And it amuses them to see you all" het up!!"
But if you object to the way they treat you ............
you really don't have to put up with that............
IF I WAS IN YOUR SHOES >>>
I WOULD JUST THROW THOSE CHIPS,RIGHT BACK AT THEM!
, AND THEN ,UP-END THEIR BEER ===
For good measure !!! LOL!
Then calmly , ask your boyfriend to take you elsewhere!
If he is worth anything, he will do just that and not subject you to these daft "friends" again,
>^,,^<
2006-09-12 09:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by sweet-cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The mates are jelous and one or two might fancy you.... your BF doesnt deserve you and you shouldnt put up with it.
tell them to grow up and just go home....leave them too it.. your BF will soon get the message that you wont stand for that behaviour.. If he really wants to be with you he will spend some time with you on his own..
2006-09-12 09:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by confused 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like they need to grow up a little bit and as for the boyfriend he should be taking up for his girl. They are all in the wrong. I'd tell him bye-bye and find someone who treats you right.
2006-09-12 09:28:48 · answer #8 · answered by Just_Curious 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't stick up for you???? Either he goes, or they do ... and I'm thinking you're better off ditching him for someone who treats you with a little more respect and demands that his friends are also respectful to you ... it also occurs to me that they don't really respect him either ... no, ditch the sad case and get yourself a REAL man. Best of luck with it.
2006-09-12 09:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Orla C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your man is not a man, leave him. Baby if anyone talked or hurt my girls feelings, including my friends they would be hurting more. Good luck and I hope you find a better man for you because a pretty flower like you deserves better.
2006-09-12 09:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋