Im going out with this girl who i love more than my own parents. we see each other about 3 times a week. How will i know if she ever starts going off me?
2006-09-12 08:57:41 · 14 answers · asked by fraser3771 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
SHE WILL START TO AVOID YOU
2006-09-12 08:58:43 · answer #1 · answered by thumberlina 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying about this ? If she's seeing you 3 times a week, she likes you - might even love you. But if this really bothers you, you could ask her. You could say "How would I know if you were going off me ?"
Trouble is, it sounds a bit insecure and needy, which ain't attractive. Trick is to appear absolutely confident of her affection, while at the same time assuring her that you love her.
However, there are a few signs, all involving changes of behaviour. If she avoids your eyes, when she used to be locked into them; if she's obviously not listening to what you say, when she used to hang on your every word; if she never asks you how she looks or wears the clothes you like, when she used to do that, then you could ask her why she's changed.
But why look for trouble ? She goes out with you - she likes you!
2006-09-12 09:22:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it happens you will know, she will try to avoid you or be busy more and more.. maybe she will start not wanting to do things she used to do with you.. dont be too paranoid though..give her a bit of space if you are going to finish there is nothing you can do about it.. sometimes life hurts and you may have to move on.. there is always plenty more fish in the sea. You think you love her more than anything but you may also feel this with someone else later in life... its hard but you have to get over it if it happens..
Best of luck
2006-09-12 09:03:19 · answer #3 · answered by confused 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are the sort of person who is insecure enough to be asking this question even before anything bad has happened then you are definitely the sort of person she will go off quite quickly.
Chill out, let things progress at their own pace and don't make yourself ill with unnecessary imaginings.
2006-09-12 09:03:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She probably wont want much physical contact! Hey though dont worry it might never happen, ive been in love for two years now things are still great :)
2006-09-12 09:00:16 · answer #5 · answered by melanie g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are worried about that already, your relationship is doomed. If you don't trust her, break it off, grow up, and try again in the future. Good luck.
2006-09-12 09:00:22 · answer #6 · answered by jamfact1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how could you ever love a girl more than ya parents you sound like a right twit.....bet ya about 12
2006-09-12 09:00:28 · answer #7 · answered by nikki 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You wont and stoop driving ur self crazy thinking about it! Negative thoughts, sometimes bring negative results!
2006-09-12 09:01:01 · answer #8 · answered by peacfulwar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What the hell does "going off me" mean?
2006-09-12 08:59:06 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
when she stops calling you and when she stops telling you that she loves you and when she trys to avoid kissing you and things like that
2006-09-12 09:01:43 · answer #10 · answered by athina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she does not speak to you anymore or is busy with other things and does not take the time to spend with you.
2006-09-12 09:01:59 · answer #11 · answered by km 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋