Personal examples encouraged, Thanks.
2006-09-12 08:57:18 · 11 answers · asked by Dr.Feelgood 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont like when a guy curses, espeically when he first meets me. I think it's tacky, rude, and disrespectful.
I absolutely HATE it when a guy complains about the price of anything or makes any comments about how expensive something is. If he cant afford to take me to a decent restaurant or pay the current rate to see a movie, perhaps he should focus on a higher paying job instead of dating. I'm not saying we have to go to a 5 star resturaunt, but overall cheap men are a complete turn off for me.
Last, I dont like overly aggressive guys. Example, guys who are too touchy or try to kiss on the first date. Not only is physical agression a turn off, but I also dont like when a guys starts to move too fast or become too clingy when we first meet. Like saying how much he likes me when we've only had a 5 minute conversation---or trying to make me his "girlfiend" when I've just met him. This may be fine for some girls but for me it makes him look desperate and I would question if he was genuine.
Oh one more thing. I dont like when a guys wants to talk alot about past relationships (his past or mine's). It's okay to share past experiences, it time, but there are plenty of other things to talk about in the beginning.
Best bet is to relax, be a complete gentlemen and ask her questions about herself to show your interest. As you become better acquainted with one another, you will be able to understand your date better and you'll be able to tell by her body language when certain things are okay. If she cuddles close to you in the movie theater...it may be okay to hold her hand on the walk to the car. Just get to know her as a person first and everything else will fall into place.
Good luck.
2006-09-12 09:16:39 · answer #1 · answered by Confuscious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate rudeness for sure. I like clean cut, nealty shaven men. Definitely style has to have something, for example, no sandals with a suit kind of thing. When a man doesn't let me talk is rude. And I also don't like it when a man talks just about himself the whole time.
2006-09-12 09:00:53 · answer #2 · answered by staysee921 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. When a man keeps checking out other women, especially the waitress, when we are on a date.
2. Not tipping well - anything under 15% is not good
2006-09-12 09:01:11 · answer #3 · answered by GirlfromUncle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, too, locate men with earring/s extremely unattractive! So, agreed, agreed, agreed on that front. additionally, men who positioned on tight denims. i detect that female to boot, and merely undeniable undesirable. exhibits that he cares approximately vogue and what's "in" better than he cares to no longer have his genitals in a vise. it extremely is a extensive turn-off. i think of the comparable of guys in tight shirts/sweaters. do exactly no longer dig the androgynous look -- if i wanted a girl, i'd be a lesbian. undesirable hygiene is tops in this record, too. Now, i think of dazzling, bleached white tooth are unattractive, comparable as men with a drawer packed with hair products, yet whilst he does not wash often, brush his tooth, clip his nails, all that, no, no, no. I determine, why would desire to I care strongly approximately somebody who does not care contained in the slightest approximately his very own self? Hmm... undesirable spelling and grammar. actual, this one's in all probability variety one. it relatively is lazy, there is not any excuse for it (till he's not an area speaker, has dyslexia, that), and it relatively is merely undeniable unattractive. Many extra, yet i'm exhausted. to boot, this record would desire to pass on for days.
2016-09-30 21:21:35 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From personal experience only ....
a guy who is rude
a guy who talks about his ex constantly
a guy who makes you do all the talking
a guy who says he'll call and then doesn't
a guy who has no table manners
2006-09-12 09:00:24 · answer #5 · answered by ingy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A man that keeps comparing you to his ex.
A man that checks out other woman.
A man that doesn't have table manners.
A man that is full of himself.
2006-09-12 09:19:00 · answer #6 · answered by Sassy_Gemini_Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
being late, white tennis shoes, tapered jeans, using your name to try and get into the theatre for free, bad breath, talking down about yourself, not tipping well, trying to be a badass
2006-09-12 08:59:50 · answer #7 · answered by violet1656 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take interest in what he is talking about but when you start sharing thoughts with him, you see that he is not even listening to what you have to say.
2006-09-12 09:06:30 · answer #8 · answered by Farhan L 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad table manners, and being self absorbed.
2006-09-12 09:13:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
show offs.
2006-09-12 09:00:15 · answer #10 · answered by Pearlz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋