how can a person find a true, authentic medium for seances. Someone who is the real thing.?

Answer 1

good luck! there are plenty of them out there, but i know
of no litmus test for authenticity.

Answer 2

After 15 years of paranormal research...I hate to burst your bubble but there is no such a person.

There are how ever plenty of people with self confidence problems that need the attention so make up these things...Such as esp or communicating with the "spirit world" but in reality its just a deeper psychological issues driving them. You can't disprove what they are saying and they feed off of your bewilderment. (Confused teen age girl desperate for attention OR overweight unattractive woman wanting to be accepted...rare is it that it's male.)

Now you have your pros that charge money. Typically they will learn as much about you and your goals ahead of time...With out you even realizing what they are doing. Then they will put together a "show" for you. Just like psychics...It's just craft learned over the years. Simple psychology is all...And some are VERY good at what they do. But it is nothing to do with spirits, ghosts or mind reading. Its all an act.

I've got years of science and study behind me...So because I said something you may not want to hear....doesn't make it wrong.

I say it because I'm tired of seeing people ripped off by these charlatans.

Just because its not real doesn't mean you can't have fun! If you go into it KNOWING its an act and for fun then by all means have at it!!!!! Just like every one knows wrestling is fake, and knowing that, still have fun watching! Nothing wrong with that.

It's those that "believe" that are either suckers or fools.

Answer 3

Hi there, I am a real thing, so I guess I am as good as any to answer this for you. Real is only what you percieve to be real. Real from my perpective is someone who lives there life, as they feel they should. I do what I do, only because I feel strongly about what I feel is real for me. I was born this way, being able to hear and feel what most did not. So for me these things were real, as time happened, I chose to use my skills to help people, I have been reading people for years and years now. Medium skills are people who believe that Life is all there is, making it easier to hear other people on another frequency so to speak, I dont think there on another side. when I feel them right here, ya know what I mean I feel presence. I think you should meet these so called readers and see what you feel about them, only you could decide if there real or not, trust what you feel, and then if you feel good about your feelings for who ever?? allow them to help you, dont make them guess. Be direct with your questions keep trust alive at all times make the experience magical and it will be I see it happen all the time it's always moving you will know it's real in your own way. My opinion is that it's usually the people who have past that want to make contact not the other way around. You are probobly feeling the need to contact someone that past. Stop and ask yourself why would they want to contact you? then ask yourself why would you want to contact them? see what answers you get. Usually from all the readings I have done, are often basic questions, these are two. #1 are they alright? #2 do know that I love them? you know your going to be living with all that you think is real, So see if you can answer these questions you have yourself, I know your loved ones will answer you. They answer me. I am nothing differant than you, You could hear them if you want to. Just because I hear and you dont, does not mean you can't. Just pray for opened mindedness. And ask your loved one to prove to you thats it's them, then you must trust that what ever out of the ordinary event happens you gotta trust it is them. Not your wild imagination. Yes we all have one (imagination) but guess what? this is what spirit uses. It comes through your mind, it's mentle. Now is it real when it happens. Well it is for me. See if it is for you. I prefer people to have there own experience but if the experince has to come from me. Then fine too, it's that message is given, how or by who, isn't as important as the experience it self. I had to learn to decern energy. it became easy for me. So I am here if you need me. But lets pray that you try it yourself, your own spirit contact. Just pray that doors are open to you both, and listen with your mind. Know that its them, with the expectation that they will prove to you it's them. And see what happens, if your relaxed enough you can get it the first time, but if your in doubt you might have to try again. It must happen. it's Spirts law. (smile) well any questions??? ask me again. arms are open here.
Loves Real to me, is it to you?

Answer 4

There is no such thing. Anyone who pretends to be a medium is a charlatan

Answer 5

They're all charlatans.

Answer 6

if you find some one who has my qualityies, then you have found your answer.... lol..