Last year, she cheated on me. Three months later, after dating him, she came back begging. I took her back, and we're trying to rebuild. Now, six months later, I noticed that she added a friend of his to her "friends" page on myspace. I told her that I am uncomfortable if she is going to be friends with his friends. Is it reasonable to ask her to remove this person from her friends page and focus on "us"? Is that "controlling" of me?
2006-09-12 08:48:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
David.....all I can say is thank God I grew up dating without computers...I feel so sorry for this generation with porn, My Space, and everything else on the damn computer....it is just so easy to fall into trouble.....it is just to easy to be unfaithful...I wouldn't trust her really....I mean you should be enough....you should fulfill her...no?...I feel for you...you will make a decision when you are ready....Blessings...oh and p.s. Ipeople think that My Space is innocent but I have friends who have hooked up on that and they were in relationships....
2006-09-12 08:57:11 · answer #1 · answered by vampire angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's not controlling, but it's MySpace! It's not real life! I have a Myspace, and so does my fiance, and I couldn't care less with who he's "friends" with on there. It's just a silly networking site to go to when you wanna see old friends!
2006-09-12 08:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by j_conway83 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It not to controlling of you I dont think. You went back to her after she cheates, I could not do that. I know that in the back of my mind i would always (like in yours) have trust issues with her. She came back begging because she realized she made a mistake, but now you are going to have to live with always thinking about if she does it again.
She is going to have to work really really hard to earn your trust again, if she ever could, and if you ask her to remove them(like you should) and she doesnt, she is not working really hard.
2006-09-12 08:53:03 · answer #3 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a little controlling. although i totally understand and would probably feel the same way you can't tell her who you think is appropriate for her to be friends with. and besides just because he's on her friends list doesn't mean anything. i have 2 of my ex's on there and my fiance doesn't care. you just have to trust her!
2006-09-12 08:53:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
while your myspace buddy count variety has extra desirable with the help of one. or you could examine with the help of going to buddy requests, sent, and spot in the experience that your request continues to be pending. no remember if it rather is, they have not wide-unfold. in the event that they have, your request ought to've disappeared. on your place internet site, it additionally should say "New acquaintances". to income, you could click on there and spot in the event that they're on your people checklist.
2016-11-07 04:40:15 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
anyone desperate enough to check people out on myspace, or even date someone because of myspace, is desperate and not for you.
2006-09-12 08:54:04 · answer #6 · answered by omnislash7377 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd dump her JUST for being a part of MySpace!!
Mr Happy
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2006-09-12 08:55:53 · answer #7 · answered by hagtagg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control who a person is friends with. If you do not trust her, move on.
2006-09-12 08:51:46 · answer #8 · answered by mrpeabody 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋