she wants us to b only friends right now cause she is scared of commitment & wants to get some of her goals accomplished
2006-09-12 08:04:03 · 15 answers · asked by d money 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's good to have time apart- to do your own thing and grow as a person. She can still love you and try to do this at the same time. Give her space and love and just let her know that you support her in what she's trying to accomplish, and that you wont wait forever- but if you are serious about her.. you will do what you can.
2006-09-12 08:07:39 · answer #1 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She just needs space to grow by herself, it doesn't mean she doesn't love you, she is just making a life investment, saying that being with you right now could lesser the chances of a successful future. I think it's a smart idea, just don't go fooling around or else you really won't be in the picture. You may want to clarify with her as well, people have different reasons and intentions for whatever they do.
2006-09-12 15:09:10 · answer #2 · answered by Hermes711 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she's lying
if she wants to achieve some goals right now then
you should probably let her
she just needs some time alone
and usually after a while without you all the time
with her
then she'll start missing you
and want you back
2006-09-12 15:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Nina_Nice 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possible things:
1. She has someone on the side that she's not sure will work out, or
2. She is completely psycho. Don't rule this out. Seek a counselor. She may very well have issues.
I'd lean to #2.
2006-09-12 16:08:20 · answer #4 · answered by ntoriano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's not ready to settle down yet, why put your life on hold? Think about what goals You want to accomplish.
2006-09-12 15:08:52 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on. She wants to play the field a while. If it is meant to be things will come back around and you two will be together in the future.
2006-09-12 15:07:13 · answer #6 · answered by xeson1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, all i can say is that don't take her back b/c she broke up with you and you need to move on. play the field a bit and if you really want her back then you should try to get her. but it is better to love and lose then to never love at all. if you love her set her free and if it's meant to be then she'll come back. the saying is true you know. so try it and see. good luck!
2006-09-12 15:08:29 · answer #7 · answered by demonswt88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to let her go. any good relationshihp would support eachother in accomplishing goals. you shouldn't need time apart to do that on your own. it sounds like she is trying to string you along for security or something.
move on! I am sure you have a few goals of your own...
2006-09-12 15:06:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is not lying,all she is trying to do is not to be get use and dump.
2006-09-12 15:09:44 · answer #9 · answered by my flame 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away and save yourself the heartache
2006-09-12 15:34:49 · answer #10 · answered by sarah_99bc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋