i used to love this boyu he said that he like me too but come to find out all he wanted was sex. then i started dating his friend and then we broke up but we still act like we did before boyfriend and girfriend. the guy i was in love with is now always touching me and flirting with me. i never stopped likeing him but i still want my ex and i still like a lot of other people but the one i really want is the one i was in love with. do you think i am unstable and how do i handle this issue of i am?
2006-09-12 08:03:51 · 10 answers · asked by *unknown* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hang in there. You are not unstable. You are learning. Here's a story for you...
One day a young man was standing in the middle
of the town proclaiming that he had the most
beautiful heart in the whole valley. A large
crowd gathered and they all admired his heart
for it was perfect.
There was not a mark or a flaw in it.
Yes, they all agreed it truly was the most
beautiful heart they had ever seen.
The young man was very proud and boasted
more loudly about his beautiful heart.
Suddenly, an old man appeared at the front of
the crowd and said, "Why your heart is not
nearly as beautiful as mine."
The crowd and the young man looked at the
old man's heart. It was beating strongly,
but full of scars, it had places where pieces
had been removed and other pieces put in, but
they didn't fit quite right and there were
several jagged edges. In fact, in some places
there were deep gouges where whole pieces
were missing.
The people stared -- how can he say his heart
is more beautiful, they thought?
The young man looked at the old man's heart
and saw its state and laughed.
"You must be joking," he said.
"Compare your heart with mine, mine is perfect
and yours is a mess of scars and tears."
"Yes," said the old man, "Yours is perfect
looking but I would never trade with you.
You see, every scar represents a person to
whom I have given my love - I tear out a piece
of my heart and give it to them, and often
they give me a piece of their heart which fits
into the empty place in my heart, but because
the pieces aren't exact, I have some rough edges,
which I cherish, because they remind me of the
love we shared. "Sometimes I have given pieces of my heart
away, and the other person hasn't returned
a piece of his heart to me. These are the
empty gouges -- giving love is taking a chance.
Although these gouges are painful, they stay open,
reminding me of the love I have for these people too,
and I hope someday they may return and fill the
space I have waiting. So now do you see what true beauty is?"
The young man stood silently with tears running
down his cheeks. He walked up to the old man,
reached into his perfect young and beautiful heart,
and ripped a piece out. He offered it to the old
man with trembling hands
The old man took his offering, placed it in his heart
and then took a piece from his old scarred heart and
placed it in the wound in the young man's heart.
It fit, but not perfectly, as there were some jagged edges.
The young man looked at his heart, not perfect
anymore but more beautiful than ever,
since love from the old man's heart flowed into his.
They embraced and walked away side by side.
You will have many pieces of your heart taken away, torn, not given back. The important thing is to keep loving. In the end, have the strongest, most scarred heart of anyone.
2006-09-12 08:11:01 · answer #1 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 some
2006-09-12 08:06:13 · answer #2 · answered by kurleylovescheese 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. unless you are one who like a lot of sex with different guys... I'd say see ya to both and start dating other guys... but.. you should know.. that most guys are looking for sex... they see dating as a way to get that... the 3-date rule is a good example (if after 3 dates a girl hasn't put out then the guy dumps her).
Get used to it.. guys from 18 - 28 do this all the time.
Its up to you to decide if you want to play or not.
2006-09-12 08:07:35 · answer #3 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are a girl with too many chooices and can't make up your mind. you need to grow up more before finding that final guy so enjoy your youth and have fun.
2006-09-12 08:06:37 · answer #4 · answered by oldsoftee2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has nothing to do with stability........but rather youth and lack of experiences. It will all come together in time. Once you begin to realize who you are, and what you want and dont want.
2006-09-12 08:07:55 · answer #5 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hormones. Leave the boys alone for a while.
2006-09-12 08:07:17 · answer #6 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to go to school and learn more stupid questions, so you can come back here and show off your stupidity
2006-09-12 08:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u have to ask a question like this, the answer is yes
2006-09-12 08:05:50 · answer #8 · answered by madchiman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you are
now come on over and get to know me
2006-09-12 08:08:49 · answer #9 · answered by twixtull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your young
2006-09-12 08:05:20 · answer #10 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋