Well there is this boy I really like but rumor has it "The girl's friends" said that they were in love so bck off. But he's always tryin 2 tlk 2 me but she gets so mad when she does. HELP ME PLEASE!!
2006-09-12 07:57:39 · 21 answers · asked by mariah!:) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please I really need it bad!
2006-09-12 07:58:30 · update #1
If they are in a relationship it appears he may be the last to know it. She may be interested in him just like you are and has sent her friend to run interferrance. Talk with him ask if he is currently in a relationship or "dating" anyone. If he says yes then back off because if he steps out on them he'll do the same to you. If you find out he is free and want to pursue a friendship or more with him..so be it! Good luck!
2006-09-12 07:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by poetic princess 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It sounds to me that he is trying to befriend you and there really is nothing wrong in that fact, however ur dilmna is that his other half obviously see u as a threat. That im mind she must know that thier relatinoship is in trouble. What is more of a concern is that she has brought her friends into it and when he appraches u its u that gets the grief, I wud advise, have a think is there anyway that u may talk to him alone ? possible in passing or even swap fone numbers so u can tlak on the fone, either way taqlk to him tell him that what has happened but for gods sake dont let him question her about it as thats gong to come back on u 10 fold. Just tell him that if he wants to speak to u then do so in a wa or place that doesnt seem out of charachter. On the same score ask outright are they having problems ? Is he interested in you ? If ur lucky he may just want u and thats y he keeps approaching you. Hope it works out for you :)
2006-09-12 15:29:55 · answer #2 · answered by Phantom Viper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well talk with the guy. Tell him how you feel, and see if its mutual. If it is, hopefully he'd want to be with you. If this is the case, make sure that he knows how his ex is treating you, and he'll stick up for you if he likes you in return. The other chick might be a bit pissed off if you steal his man, but hey, if its meant to be, it'll be! If all he wants is a friendship, then I wouldn't worry about the girl. Don't go around it blind sided though, if he says he's happy with his girlfriend, respect that, and just be friends, and hope that it doesn't work out, and that he comes to you when he breaks up with her. I wouldn't worry too much about the girl
2006-09-12 15:03:55 · answer #3 · answered by Hannah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he actually dating/seeing/ making this other girl think they have a relationship who's friends are telling you to back off?
If he is 'seeing' another girl.... she has a right to be upset... it sounds as if you may be a younger gal, and it is quite possible this other gal just likes him.
If he is a "free" man go for it.. you don't have anyone to answer... but for all you know he may be stringing this other poor girl along and she might not know he is talking you up and just thinks you are moving in on her territory....
you have to look at the situation for a few different angles =) and if he is stringing this other gal along also.. is he really worth fighting for???
I wish you the very best.
2006-09-12 15:00:48 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ingore the girl she is just jealous because there is nothing going on between him and her and by the sounds of things he really likes you or wants to get to know you.
Now if she is getting in the way just give him your number or ask for his or even msn or e-mail if you both have them.
I think you should go for it and like I said forget the girl and think about what you want and about her.
I hope you get your man :-)
Good Luck!!!!
2006-09-12 15:03:23 · answer #5 · answered by ??77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they are really in love then it should not matter if you are his just his friend. Keep talking to him and build a friendship. If she is getting mad and jealous, then they are not that tight. The friend position is a good neutral place to be close to him and bide your time till he dumps the psycho girlfriend.
Good luck
2006-09-12 15:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by murkglider 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the "girlfriend" says back off, then she good and well she has no chance at keepin him when you start talkin to him. That also means she's jealous and nobody want a jealous b/f or g/f. Girl all I can say iz go for what you want!!!
2006-09-12 15:07:59 · answer #7 · answered by Leah S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are not friends with this girl, then do your own thing! Go for it. If you are friends with her, you should back off. Just let it go with the flow and slowly start to talk to him- and see where he stands.
2006-09-12 14:59:57 · answer #8 · answered by InLoveandWar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be a hater, you're way ahead of her. Just push your way in there and grab the boy for yourself
2006-09-12 14:58:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately you cannot stop love once a mutual attraction takes place. If you like him and he likes you then go for it!
2006-09-12 15:00:26 · answer #10 · answered by Joe K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋