How does a not so good looking guy get a girl..........?
2006-09-12 07:50:53 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just approach her and start a conversation. It might help if you know something about here so you can talk about that. If you are in school bring something up about that. She may just turn you done right away, but take the rejection with your chin up high and try again. After a brief conversation, tell her that her eyes are beautiful. Compliment her in some way. Good luck.
2006-09-12 07:55:06 · answer #1 · answered by ?Shannan? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all heres ur first problem u cant go around saying stuff like not so good looking guy u have to have a high self esteem and think higher of ur self because when u have confidence and believe in urself it shows through u and girls like a guy who has confidence a lot another thing is u have to be sweet when u like a girl dont be all mean to her like some guys to because that doesnt make girls like u be sweet and act like a gentlemen hmmm some other things r lets see hmmm u have to get out there and meet girls be talkative talk to them about ur intrest and get out and meet people if u work on those things u could probaly get a girl
2006-09-12 14:57:31 · answer #2 · answered by droppantsnotbombs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By being exactly what the girl wants as far as everything else. Meaning a guy that makes love to her, not just ***** her, treats her with respect, is understanding, isn't afraid to show that he's not always masculin, doesn't put on an act to be liked by her, just is completely who he is.
When I first met my boyfreind, I didn't think he was attractive. But now that I am in love with him, I find oh so many things physically and internally sexy about him all the time. Little cute facial expressions, his tiny cute facial structure, his oh so tiny hands, his skinny legs, the way he shaves his facial hair. When he doesn't comb or gel his hair. Sure these things might not be what you initially look for, but once you know someone, you notice all the cute things they have because you love them. Not every girl would think these particular things are attractive, but I do, every girl is different. But you get my point, you love someone, you will think they are attractive. You just will. To me his unconventional attractiveness, is hotter than what all the, so called society thinks is hot guys are all put together.
2006-09-12 14:54:51 · answer #3 · answered by Green Tea Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes at first people are attracted to how somebody looks, but the reason why people are so much better off in a relationship after being friends first is because they get to know eachother. A person falls in love with character, personality, charm and all the other stuff, not the looks. Looks can only get you so far.
2006-09-12 14:55:46 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
only part of it is looks.... and remember, EVERYONE can do what they can to at least take care of their appearance.. u may not be Brad Pitt, *but* u CAN look the best that YOU can. hope that makes sense.
so, my advice would be to work on your confidence. that means, doing what u can to FEEL "good looking" in ur own right. so, work out, exercise, take care of yourself. take care of ur skin, get different haircut, find flattering clothes, be in "fashion" so to speak. once u start working on urself, u will just FEEL better about yourself. u will see what looks good on you versus what doesn't =T..that's better than nothing right??
next, work on your mind. if ur a student, study hard. read more, learn more, and be able to Discuss more. focus on working on your speaking ability, and ur ability to maintain and Make new friendships. the more Comfortable and Confident you are, in ur own skin, the easier it will be for a good woman to see who you are, regardless of your looks (and remember, u are already working on your looks, so it's not that huge of a deal anymore).
remember to keep Positive, Healthy, and Happy things and people around you. keep an open mind, do not judge others, even if they judge you. filter out the negative things, and surround urself w/ Positive. that means, all those nice, positive, happy, healthy girls u keep as friends, u have a "better" pool of fish to choose from! and u will filter out the girls who don't treat u well, who judge u for ur looks, etc...those are not good relationship material anyways. :) so, good luck, and work on ur confidence. it goes a LONG way in changing your LIFE. u will be able to get better jobs, do better in school, meet more people, just because of confidence. take care always!
2006-09-12 14:57:56 · answer #5 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beauty is subjective...just because one girl doesn't think you're good looking, doesn't mean they all think that. Everyone has different tastes.
That being said, it doesn't matter how you look anyway. A quality girl will fall for a man because he is honest, dependable, and loving. Do sweet romantic things for her, listen to her, respect her, and never ever lie to her. A girl who is worth your time will care more about these things than your appearance.
2006-09-12 14:53:31 · answer #6 · answered by alliekittie18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself, hang out with people that you feel comfortable with. As time goes by you will see that looks are not everything but a true friendship is the most important. Good luck and she awaits you so have patience.
2006-09-12 14:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just have to be nice and have a good sense of humor. But you don't want to come off too nice that she only wants you as a friend. One way that I notice a guy is if he has a good smile and a good smell. If girls don't want to date you just because of the way you look, you shouldn't even want to date them anyway.
2006-09-12 14:53:59 · answer #8 · answered by speedy_me18 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He has to act very confident that is a turn on. even if you are so cute and very shy not wanting to be about the world is a turn off for me. And that's why you see some really ugly guys with some cute girls. personality social funny outgoing likes to try new things.
2006-09-12 14:59:38 · answer #9 · answered by nena24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. :o)
You want a girl that is going to love you for all of your GREAT traits, right? So getting a girl purely on looks is denying yourself. Seriously. Fabulous personalities go a long way....and if you get a girl that LOOKS great, but has the personality of a turnip...umm...LOL. You might get bored after awhile, you know?
And believe me. When it is supposed to happen, it will happen. Just have faith. :o)
2006-09-12 14:54:27 · answer #10 · answered by lauriejustlaurie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋