hey people, im a guy 17, why can i never get a girlfriend and always seem to make girl-friends? everytime i talk to one .Any sugestions on how i can be seen as something more instead of being friends, im a bit heavy handed i need to get some but i want a relationship i think imredy now anyway you guys get the picture? im a bit shy in this subject but any you peeps tell me whatcha think
much appreciated
2006-09-12 07:50:34 · 10 answers · asked by Izzy10 S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's something in your approach. Most women and girls know within the first 5 minutes of meeting you if anything is going to go any further.
2006-09-12 07:53:22 · answer #1 · answered by scorpion187us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you approach a woman in a non-sexual manner, she'll see you as a non-sexual friend. If you want to spark her interest, don't be afraid to be a bit racy. Don't be a pig, but a little innuendo goes a long way. My personal favorite is the double entendre - where you say something that could have both an innocent meaning and a decidedly naughtier one. If you get her mind working that way, she'll see you much differently than they do now.
2006-09-12 14:59:34 · answer #2 · answered by Chris S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta be chilled out and not so heavy handed as many ladies find that a turn off.Be smart in appearance but not over the top,don`t set your sights too high or people on first glance,it`s what`s inside that counts.Try speed dating or going to single nights,check your local paper for venues,main thing enjoy yourself and don`t try too hard finding miss right as you never know whats around the corner..........Good luck.
2006-09-12 15:40:38 · answer #3 · answered by sarah y 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
AT 17 you should only be having friends. you should be dating as many girls as possible see what kind of girl you like and what type you don't. Don't rush.. one of the dates may give you what you are looking for.. but don't push it.
Work on bein self confident (but not cocky)
Clean & well dressed
pay attention to what she says (even though you really are just picturing her nakid)
have fun
but don't.. don't ... don't tie yourself down to one girl!!!! not for at lest the next 10 years or so... this time should be about you!!!!
2006-09-12 14:56:39 · answer #4 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep trying put your self out there and kiss a gal when you are getting on with her
maybe the girls are shy and are waiting for you to move in. my friends are like that with men all the time. some women like the man to make the first move!
2006-09-12 14:55:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i have had A LOT of guy friends that i just want to stay friends but they want to become more. somethimes when your friends for long enough you both learn to love eachother. but sometimes its better to just be friends. You'll find the girl 4 u soon enough somethimes its better 2 b single! LOL! trust me.
2006-09-12 15:00:57 · answer #6 · answered by [T][A][V][I][A] 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are too nice. Its sad but most girls want a guy they feel like they cant have or shouldnt be with try ignoring them and flirt a lot
2006-09-12 14:53:29 · answer #7 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aaawwww get some lapdancesr round
2006-09-12 14:51:47 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be a jerk to get a girl at your age.
2006-09-12 14:53:13 · answer #9 · answered by solo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to meet someone that is looking for or wanting the same things you want.
2006-09-12 14:53:06 · answer #10 · answered by Mean Carleen 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋