My ex and I have been talking about getting back together. But before that I found that he was talking to someone on MySpace. I wasn't going for it so I put us going together on hold. I have mad feelings for him that's why I'm still after him. But a couple days ago we had a very good conversation about us and I finally thought that it was gonna be the time for us to give it another try. But I just found out that he might still be talking to that other girl on MySpace. I'm feeling like he don't want me because he's not rying to be discreet about it neither. I have a myspace too and I could go on his page and look at all the comments she wrote hima nd that pisses me off because he's always talking about how much he loves me. And I don't know what to do.
2006-09-12 07:44:14 · 10 answers · asked by Foxxy 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well maybe he doesn't hide it because it isn't important.... did you think of it that way?
Just as you are asking total strangers for support and their opinions, maybe he is doing the same thing.
He may never meet this person..... know their true identity... what their voice sounds like etc.....
But here you are feeling sorry for yourself about a "girl" on my space.. that for all you know could be a 40 yr old guy... OK I am just trying to be silly and cheer you up, but seriously, I wouldn't let it come between you if you TRULY want to give it another shot.
I wish you the VERY best of luck =)
2006-09-12 07:45:23 · answer #1 · answered by ♥ goddessofraine ♥ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should look at the reason why you broke up with him in the first place. If it was about him cheating on you then gal, DONT go back, coz it will just go down the same way it went before. If it were for other reasons then you should look and see if the mistakes have been corrected before you get back.
2006-09-12 14:49:29 · answer #2 · answered by margaryan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm....pretty much just spell it out for him. HER OR ME. MySpace or NO MySpace. You should be able to tell by the first sentence that comes out of his mouth whether or not he wants to be with you. Good luck with that one.
2006-09-12 14:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't date him right now. If you go back to him with him knowing that you know that he is talking to other girls, he will walk all over you. He will think to himself, hey she is cool with it, she wont leave me, I am going to still do it.
You dont need that! Let him talk all he wants, but not with you by his side. If he knows that this bothers you, and he really cares for you like he says, then he would have stopped. He hasn't right.
I know its hard when you have strong feelings for somebody to let go. Believe me, I went through it, but I did it and I am much happier now than ever. Leave him, ignore him, show him you wont always be there for him. He will probably coming running back. Who knows if you would even want to take him back by then.
Good luck!
2006-09-12 14:49:10 · answer #4 · answered by jam_psb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is doing what guys do best... keeping his options open. He knows there is a good chance that you two won't work so he wants to be sure he has someone to fall back on.
I'm not saying I agree with this - but its what most guys do.
My suggestion - go find someone that isn't into headgames.
2006-09-12 14:47:16 · answer #5 · answered by .... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if u want to still b with him go for it if not then dont talk to him more and see if they are still together or talking or whatever try to find out
2006-09-12 14:46:35 · answer #6 · answered by santa paula gurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
looks like he isn't going to be that good this time around either. If he wants you tell him to stop talking to her.
2006-09-12 14:46:54 · answer #7 · answered by brunette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's an ex.
Give him the final boot.
2006-09-12 14:45:50 · answer #8 · answered by Angela 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably not you should find someone who'll give you all his attention.
2006-09-12 14:47:19 · answer #9 · answered by fangstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
second chances always works................
2006-09-12 14:46:34 · answer #10 · answered by Angel to da rescue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋