I am scared because of the pain but I heard that once you pop you cant stop is that true?
2006-09-12 07:43:49 · 40 answers · asked by Chocolatemac 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you'll be a nympho after you taste the sin...
2006-09-13 07:17:45 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy the Cricket 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you pop you can stop anytime you want hun. Sexuality is about self control. Just because your hymen is broken doesn't mean that you have to turn into a hooker. The pain is not as bad as everyone makes it out to be. Sure, I'm not going to lie, it doesn't feel wonderful, but a plus is that your body when you are having sex sends out an impulse that makes your threshold for pain higher, so after a while the pain subsides and it starts to feel good. As far as being nervous, everyone is nervous their first time. It is best to have sex with someonet that you are extremely confortable with and who you know is going to take it slow and gently for you on your first time. If you are twenty, you might have already popped your cherry with a tampon, so I wouldn't be too worried about that "once you pop you can't stop" thing.
2006-09-12 07:48:49 · answer #2 · answered by Natty137 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about the pain too much.....its this whole hype that the media has created. It does hurt but if you're turned on enough and the environment is right its not too bad.
Once you pop u cant stop? The truth is that with the pop you actually start and it usually happens early enough so after that you go through a few partners till you find the right partner so.......in a way it justifies that statement.
2006-09-12 07:47:58 · answer #3 · answered by sensa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First be sure that its what you want because you cant reverse the process. In my opinion it should be with someone you intend to spend the rest of your life with (my opinion). When its with someone you love and i mean really leave he should not just ram in there without even thinking of you but just of himeslf if he really loves you it will be very slow and gentle watching and listening for your STOP, WAIT, SLOWLY etc. its all about you. And its a wonderful thing when you can recall your first time experience because it was beautiful not tramatic. Ive been married for 15 years and never once thought that it was time to bring in a Pro. Remeber follow you heart. And I never heard that once you pop you cant stop. Caution theres also a psychological part to all this.
2006-09-12 09:12:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the other guy do you really expect us to belive that well for th sake of the question i will answer because there is always that possibility that you being truthful so i take a chance yes it's true but if you really want it to stop put pain and fear aside and do it but i sound as i'm saying just give it up i mean that by no way just giving advice when i met my ex she was a virgin(18) she wasn't really into sex but once it popped she couldn't stop so first hand experience it's true
2006-09-12 07:48:45 · answer #5 · answered by ken m 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait until you´re married, even if you´re not religious (I´m Catholic, but that´s not really the reason why I´m waiting). Think about it this way. What´s the best gift you can give your husband on your wedding night? YOUR VIRGINITY. He will feel sooooo special that you haven´t been around and slept with other guys. He will admire you for your self-respect and high morals. I´m not putting anybody down who has pre-marital sex because most of my friends have and that´s a personal choice, but only 3% of the population waits until they are married to have sex. By waiting, you will also show that you are unique and you don´t fall into peer pressure. Any man who can´t understand this isn´t worthy of you. Most people regret not waiting for "the one" (notice I said MOST, not ALL), and by "the one", I mean the man you´re going to spend the rest of your life with. Forget about the whole, "I need to test-drive the car before I buy it" stuff. How can you compare a woman to a car? Your husband, whether he is a virgin or a non-virgin, will have his whole life to teach you about sex. Why not learn it from him? Trust me, he (your future husband) will be honored.
2006-09-12 07:48:08 · answer #6 · answered by Green-Eyed Gal 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First things first...i simply dont believe you.
But since The answer is gonna give me points ill tell you my openion.
Poping the cherry hurts...but it differs from woman to woman. For some women the skin's tough n hence causes pain n while for others its said that they wont even know. You'll have to find out for yourself in wht catagory you are.
And dont do it for the sake of it. Get it done with someone you really love. Means that wait for the someone. You are just 20 right?
2006-09-12 07:52:55 · answer #7 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey if your a virgin dont worry! dont listen to spieny or whatever his name is! I lost mine when i was 16, i wish i wouldnt have, bcuz the first time was a total waste, it was with some guy i didnt know and i was really drunk, so i bearly remember it! You can stop after you have had it once! My advice is if you really want sex make sure that you dont do it stupidly, make sure its with someone that you really care bout or love! The first time as to what i remember really didnt hurt, but that may be because i was also drunk! I hope i helped you out alil bit. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 07:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by country_cowgirl2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 22 and still one too. It is tough, I think about it all the time, but it will be rewarding because you will be admired when you eventually find the right guy. In the meantime, I just keep myself as busy as possible (lol) while also dating my boyfriend. He respects that I am still a virgin, and I am going to wait until I am totally ready.
2006-09-12 08:28:13 · answer #9 · answered by July 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you so bothered that your still a virgin?
your unique nowadays and you should be proud of the fact that you have waited.
Having sex for the first time isnt all its made out to be,its usually scary and painful.
If you have sex without love for the first time,you will always remember it as a mistake and i bet alot of people tell you they wished they had waited,thats because the time wasnt right for them and its not right for you.
Take your time in deciding who is allowed to be with you and who isnt,after all,once you let it go for the first time,there is no way of going back and you may regret it.
Wait for the right person and you will feel alot better about this sex thing.
2006-09-12 07:48:38 · answer #10 · answered by freerange00720002000 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well if you do not want to face the pain stay a virgin, it really is that easy. So make the choice for yourself. Best thing to do it wait till marriage.
2006-09-12 07:45:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋