I realise this all my life, and liking someone easily is just me. Somehow this thing comes back to me and i've been having a crush on a married doctor who's also my colleague. He's several years my senior and I've tried not to think about him but he's been incredibily nice to me (note: he's very courteous). The problem here is...I'm already 25 and yet crushes still going on. Is this normal? I cant seem to get him out of my mind. Please help.
2006-09-12 07:22:50 · 14 answers · asked by Springboard 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Nothing wrong with that... He has a special part in your heart, and you will always remember him no matter what. Its like your first "love" you will never let go
2006-09-12 07:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by V L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, no matter what, he is married, which hands off until things change. A) You wouldnt want to be responsible if things got messed up with his family B) What if he were to just use you, not have any of the feelings you have towards him, and then not only do you have a broken heart but then there will awkwardness in your office place. The first question I would ask is if he in any way flirts with you or makes it seem like you have a chance with him. If so, briefly tell him how he makes you feel and see what he says. Either way, if he has a wife he is off limits. I hope you follow through with that.
2006-09-12 14:27:49 · answer #2 · answered by c_69_2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Passion is a part of life. Crushes are normal. How you deal with them is what makes the difference. There are millions of people out there. Pass by, pass by- find someone else who is not married, and have fun. If he divorces, then after a year, let him know you are interested. If you get involved with him, you are looking at a lot of pain and anguish.
2006-09-12 14:27:56 · answer #3 · answered by Sad-Dad 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you have what most people have and that is you want what you can't have, honestly it is normal. It is why women go after the bad boy image because he is the less tame. Same scenerio. You are going to have to find someone else that does the same thing for you or better.
Good luck and be careful to not give in to your feelings.
2006-09-12 14:35:56 · answer #4 · answered by Redneck Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems to me this guy represents, on a subconscience level, a father figure to y ou.
Take time to do some real soul searching on this, leave the sexual part out.
2006-09-12 14:26:02 · answer #5 · answered by koleebear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to have crushes your entire life. However, you should try to focus your attention on men who are not already married or taken. That's not fair to you, that's not fair to him and most importantly that's really not fair to his wife.
2006-09-12 14:32:59 · answer #6 · answered by jennypoo803 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok to have crush but dont get involved with him you dont want to be the cause of breaking up a family...
2006-09-12 14:25:59 · answer #7 · answered by lola 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Crushes aren't age-related. You're fine.
2006-09-12 14:27:34 · answer #8 · answered by steelypen 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes this is normal there is nothing wrong with that at all if he is not married....
But I would never date a man at my job
2006-09-12 14:28:45 · answer #9 · answered by Tee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well its not weird, but just don't do anything with this man. Try not to see him as anything but ur colleague.
2006-09-12 14:27:15 · answer #10 · answered by a7xrios 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋