I asked this question the other day:-
Please dont judge me as ive come here to ask a question. Right i slept with a friend (ive never in my life had a one night stand and im 23 so this was a first) who has a girlfriend of 5 years. He came 3 hours to see me and we stayed in a really nice hotel (hes 33 by the way). He is up for seeing me again and will travel the distance. He claims he loves his girlfriend but then why has he cheated on her? I can understand if it was just a sex thing if i lived down the road from him but i dont. Hes travelling to see me so surely if it was just sex he might as well pick someone up near him - i just dont get it? I like him so much and im wrong for doing what im doing but i cant help it.
and got alot of responses saying he was travelling to see me so his girlfriend didnt find out (the 50 mile rule). Anyway he now wants to meet in in the town where he works in the week. I then confronted him and said why are we doing this. he said he......
2006-09-12 07:13:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
doesnt know hes stupid. He says maybe its best we dont do it again as he doesn want to hurt me. now he wants to meet me in a local town to him and just for food and drink and to have a laugh. what is he playing at? He said all we will ever be is friends.
2006-09-12 07:14:11 · update #1
Hes said lunch because he doesnt want it leading to sex because he feels bad for his girlfriend and me. If i pushed it he would go for sex but he thinks lunch is for the best
2006-09-12 07:22:04 · update #2
He says he thinks its an ego thing
2006-09-12 07:38:08 · update #3
i personally would leave him where he is you know in your own heart you are worth more than what he is offering you i would cut all contact with him he seems like a player that just wants s*x im sorry i know that is not what you want to hear but it is my opinion and i didn't judge you good luck in your life find a guy that will be true to you the way you deserve
2006-09-12 07:20:50 · answer #1 · answered by angel 36 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey hes messing your mind up ,, hes being a real sad player at the end of the day , imagine if you were in his girlfriends position i wonder how she wud feel is she found out ,,, ok say if you 2 got together and he left his girlfriend for you ,,, hes got a higher chance hes sleeping with someone else ,,, you know hes a cheater already ?? do you wanna be cheated on aswell ,, the answers are all there ? you choose
2006-09-12 14:30:08 · answer #2 · answered by Izzy10 S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is banging you cause he knows that you won't rat him out and that he doesn't have to work to get it.
I wouldn't drive that far, but I mean an hour to get some strange from someone that will never meet my girlfriend is not a bad deal. Especially since you already know he is cheating and are ok with it. That is the prime deal, he doesn't even have to lie to you.
2006-09-12 14:39:24 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already know in your heart and mind that this guy is up to no good...so why ask anyone else? Just leave him alone and find a man of your own to have all the sex you want...trust me...you would enjoy it better.
2006-09-12 14:37:02 · answer #4 · answered by epm_3025 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I`m amazing you with knowledge and know he got girl friend, still running your relationship with him.He cheating her and will cheating you too.Be honest you looking for sex , same him,and don`t care what will happen in the future. If isn`t it,dump him,and try someone honest.
2006-09-12 14:46:25 · answer #5 · answered by discover 1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, he wants his cake, and eat it. youre no more than a plaything, and you will get hurt by this cheating lowlife..if hes already done it to his G/F, what makes you think he'll treat you any different? he wont, so get rid of him, before he gives you something you cant get rid of, like aids. he's sleeping around at the end of the day... and you probably arent the only one.
think of htis, youre not only having sex with him, but his parteners as well...yes, al of them... russian roulette has better odds. and im a guy... dump him.
2006-09-12 14:19:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should just try being friends he obviously loves his girlfriend! He's cheating because he's a guy!!
2006-09-12 14:25:53 · answer #7 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to meet you for lunch because he's hoping it'll lead to more sex. There's no reason for you to continue it- if you were his girlfriend you wouldnt want your man cheating on you, would you?
2006-09-12 14:19:13 · answer #8 · answered by aaron 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Kick his cheating lying **** out of the door
2006-09-12 14:57:03 · answer #9 · answered by voluptuous 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop letting urself be used by this guy!!! time spent with him is time lost with a guy who really wants to be with u
good luck
2006-09-12 15:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Barson 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋