I AM A FATTY BOY. I am talking toa girl from recent an yr months.we both r comfortable with each other.but from last three months we r not in touch she is not giving me any phone calls , whn i meet her in college she just said hi & moved away recently around 6months i proposed her she said i can be a gud friend but not more thn that. i cant understand wht is going on. i want her. plss help me out.
2006-09-12 07:08:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont obsess. You cant force it.
2006-09-12 07:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by vanman8u 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your appearance and personality have to improve if you really want to impress anyone - leave aside a girl. Probably you failed to understand your gf's feelings in the beginning itself. Don't forget that girls are very sensitive and emotional as compared to boys and they deserve respect. If your gf wants to have friendship only, you can't force her to love you. May be, she can be your best friend in life, so don't be upset. Loving someone does not always mean that both of you should be life-partners, unless the other side reciprocates. So cheer up and move on while making it a point to improve your physique!
2006-09-13 08:53:21 · answer #2 · answered by believer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear Hans,
U can not force anyone for any kind of relation, if once she has clearly said u can be a gud frn, why didn't u accept that,both of will remain happy as soon as u accept this fact and surely she'll get back to u soon.Gud Luck
2006-09-12 14:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably only wanted to just be friends and when you started acting the way you did you scared her. Honestly I dont think she is ever gonna feel the same now. You pushed her away..... sorry but I think you wrecked what you had by trying to make more out of what was only a friendship.
2006-09-12 14:21:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hate to be the one who burst your bubble but when the girl tell's you that she just wants to be your friend than she really just wants to be your friend. those months you had'nt gotten ahold of her she could have met someone else and shes just trying to be nice. I would just give her some space and move on, if she makes a move on you again or tells you what happend thats great but other than that i would just leave it alone. It's not worth the time plus you might meet someone else thats great!
2006-09-12 14:16:09 · answer #5 · answered by kim_banning84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
comfort is not everything u should call her up and meet with her and talk frankly and sincerely and see whats on her mind and if ur both feeling same way or ever felt same .... im sure u can work it out but u just need to communicate
2006-09-12 14:11:06 · answer #6 · answered by dr.eddie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Lose weight
2. Learn to spell
3. She wants no part of a fatty boy who spells poorly
4. Fat, drunk and stupid are no way to go through life
5. Best of luck and lower your expectations...fat chicks need loving too, dude.
2006-09-12 14:21:42 · answer #7 · answered by Johnny 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The best thing about you is that you are honest. Women like that so here's what i suggest...give yourself 3 months, lose weight.....big time.....learn to play the guitar....the weight loss will automatically help your self confidence......u need to work on your personality too.....then just surprise her....it may work.......but u have to try all this sincerely.
2006-09-12 14:29:09 · answer #8 · answered by sensa 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i would find someone else as she is obviously not interested in you as she wouldnt have turned you down, you need to accept she only wants to be your friend and move on and find someone who loves you for you.
2006-09-12 14:13:06 · answer #9 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then leave her. hello, she's not the only gurl on earth, there's millions of cute chicks out there...
2006-09-12 21:31:02 · answer #10 · answered by saNdHyA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It looks like she doesn't want you sorry you have to move on!!
2006-09-12 14:11:49 · answer #11 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋