i have a bf that keep toying with me. i have to admit i put up with his games for a while hoping he would change. well he didnt. what i dont understand is why would a guy keep trying to come back if he knows he is not going to change. why go back if he knows i dont like his way. what is going on in a persons mind to make them keep going back if they know they wont be diferent. yes i know the story about he does it cause you let him. thats not what im asking. im asking what makes a person go back if they know the out come of what someone will do or say. and they know they are not going to do anything diferent then the lsat time. why mess with people like that?
2006-09-12 07:07:03 · 16 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You my dear are making him feel or rather has ensured from your behaviour that either your defenses can easily be cut into,
Or all he cares about is himself. When he feels like meeting you or when he feels like playing with your emotions he just does it. You are just his "subject".
You are probably wondering what could be going on in the mind of a person? Thats way beyoung you girl. Its can be unimaginably wild and demonic.
Can you imagine what could possibly be going on in the minds of a child rapist?...So if you think hes potentially hazardous to you then dont waste time...get rid of him asap. Sew him wih stalking.
2006-09-12 07:35:56 · answer #1 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have a lot of questions there, but it really is because you let him. Maybe its an "ego thing" for him. He has to keep proving to himself that you will take him back. Maybe he's just trying to keep you interested in case he is willing to change his ways. Who knows for sure? What you really need to be asking "yourself" is are you will ing to put up with that ? And why?
2006-09-12 14:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by worldhq101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He comes back cause he knows that you'll be there for him. He comes back cause you're the one to turn to, no offense, when he's lonely. He comes back cause he's a jerk who likes playing with your heart and mind. He comes back to keep control of you. He comes back just because he can... hun don't let him come back again!! Stay strong and you get that upper hand and show him you do not need his shite!
2006-09-12 14:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by tabkat73 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a couple of things sex and money. If ur giving it to him, he'll keep coming back and doing the same thing it's not going change til u want it to.
2006-09-12 14:14:07 · answer #4 · answered by D-Nice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The big questions is whey do you encourage him to keep coming back when you know its a loosing cause. You know he is screwing with your mind.
Its called co-dependent and is a problem with you. Cut him loose and move on with your life. If you take him back you are the looser not him.
2006-09-12 14:10:37 · answer #5 · answered by T 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's having a hard time moving on. He's holding on to you like you were a security blanket until he finds someone else he can latch on to.
My advice... 1) Stop calling him your BF. 2) Ignore him and move on with your life.
2006-09-12 14:11:59 · answer #6 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's the answer you don't want to hear - it's because you let him. you should not even have a conversation with this guy - as soon as you do, you let him back in. best thing to do is email him not to contact you until all his issues are resolved cause you don't have time for people with unresolved issues and then stick to your guns - do not take his phone calls - do not text him - do not respond to his emails. you are in control now - get it?
2006-09-12 14:12:36 · answer #7 · answered by livetall1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say it to you this way, but if you're asking why ppl mess with you like that its because you let him. You have to be strong in putting your foot down. they'll keep doing it if they know they can.
2006-09-12 14:12:03 · answer #8 · answered by starr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When he comes back are you giving him sex? If the answer is yes. Why ask Why? He is a man afterall.
2006-09-12 14:10:41 · answer #9 · answered by datingyoungincali 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he knows that he can mess with you and get away with it. He knows you will not say anything or do anything about it, so why don't you stop your whining and just live with it.
2006-09-12 14:12:54 · answer #10 · answered by Prince W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋