If your significant other accuses you of cheating, does it mean that they are cheating on you?
2006-09-12 07:05:59 · 11 answers · asked by due 6/30/10 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've Never cheated on him and I didn't give him any indication that i was....
2006-09-12 07:18:53 · update #1
We were engaged but we broke up yesterday
2006-09-12 07:19:32 · update #2
no, they are just paranoid most likely (unless you are of course)
2006-09-12 07:07:24 · answer #1 · answered by bregweidd 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly. People most often expect others to act the way they do themselves. A liar will expect others to lie to him/her. A cheater will expect their partner to also cheat.
Otherwise, your partner is probably just very insecure and will always doubt you, no matter how much you try to allay those fears.
Either way, I'd break it off now if I were you. People never change and you will always be accused of cheating and spend the rest of your life justifying yourself if you stay in the relationship.
2006-09-12 07:10:44 · answer #2 · answered by auskan2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my opinion if he is accusing you of cheating then he is really telling you that he does not trust you and if that is the case then you really need to question if he is worth staying in the realtionship. Because if you don't have trust - it's not going to work anyway.
2006-09-12 07:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely; Same thing just happened to me in my last relationship. My boyfriend was constantly accusing me of doing things behind his back, or cheating or pulling all kinds of jealousy and insecurity issues without any, any reason at all.
Well I found out he was doing Internet dating while he was telling me"he loved me". Get rid of him!
2006-09-12 07:18:36 · answer #4 · answered by Paula H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience it is the one that is cheating that asks first.
2006-09-12 07:09:03 · answer #5 · answered by naute_girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably and he is hiding his guilt by falsely accusing you.
2006-09-12 07:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always, sometimes people get goofy thoughts in their heads that leads them to this thought.
2006-09-12 07:14:24 · answer #7 · answered by preciousmoments1962 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, but have you done it in the past, or does he know that you have with another perosn in the past....cause they must know that your likely to do it.
2006-09-12 07:09:10 · answer #8 · answered by So_Needless_2_Say 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES MOST OF THE TIME.USUALLY A PERSON WHO ACCUSES ARE VERY INSECURE ABOUT THEMSELVES.
2006-09-12 07:11:35 · answer #9 · answered by sunshine 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No... just means you need to ask him why he thinks you are.
2006-09-12 07:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Sam I AM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋