Seriously. Like, especially with relationships, I'm so worried everyone will think this guy is too old for me. But we get on perfectly, I'm legal, etc etc.
How do I stop caring so fricken much?! I SHOULD BE ABLE TO DATE HIM WHENEVER I WANT!
2006-09-12 06:58:23 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to develop a back bone and grow a thicker skin. Stop being a wimp and ignore what people say...It's none of their business.
2006-09-12 07:02:02 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to take a load-off.
What I mean is find some methods of relaxation.
Yoga, Drinking(not excessively), talking with ppl, or just take a walk.
This world is full of distractions - everything is a distraction even this text box that I'm typing into now on this webiste is a distraction.
Go for a nice walk (forests are good) spend at least 3 hours away from it all just to clear your mind, I reckon you'll feel better beacuse of it. - this'll mean you'll start thinking more without the daily things interferring. - My 2 Cents - man I ramble on LOL!
2006-09-12 07:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by imcdw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nora you will never stop caring because you were brought that way, but you can look at your relationship and see the good that is in it and because it is good for you
than you say that it is your feeling that , your needs that matter
Remmember sociaty is always the first to judge and the last to help when you are in need
So girl good Luck and do what is best for you
2006-09-12 07:42:56 · answer #3 · answered by waiting for baby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will not care so much what others think when you accept yourself for who you are. When people worry about what others think they usually are seeking approval from others, wanting then to tell them they are doing the right things or that they are okay. Once you accept yourself you don't need other peoples approval. Know who you are and what you think is right and wrong! Be okay with that and others opinions won't matter so much!
2006-09-12 07:04:11 · answer #4 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
psh. dont worry about it! so what if the guy is older than you. it all depends on how you guys feel about each other. if you love him forget about everyone else. dont worry about silly mess like that. and yes you should be able to date him whenever you want. if anybody has anything to say screw them. theyre either just jealous because they dont have a boyfriend, jealous bc they want to have the same loving relationship im sure youd have with him, or they are superficial. hope i helped <3
2006-09-12 07:11:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should be able to date him. But obviously you care what other people think of you and your situation because if you didn't then you would go on with your life and not dive a damn about anyone else. Do you live on your own and pay your own bills? Take care of yourself and your responsibilities ? Then go for it. When people start contributing to your funds and how you live then yeah maybe I would consider their two cents until then. Tell them to mind their own..
2006-09-12 07:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by MIA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should be able to date him whenever you want . you like him so what if the world thinks he is too old for you. and i think you making the age thing a bigger issue than it is . how to stop caring what other people are saying [well think about yourself for a change and forget about the rest] try it and tell me how it went.
2006-09-12 07:06:11 · answer #7 · answered by Eric 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like your about 18 19 years old.he must be around in his late 20 early 30s you seem to worried.I think that your more worried about what your parents my think more than anyone.I think that they even might know him personally and you know that they wouldn't approve of the relationship.This is a decision that you have to make on your own yes you are of age so act like it.get on with you life and don't worry about everyone else.worrying about what others think will set you back in life.good luck.
2006-09-12 07:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by oceanwvs2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us never stop caring what other people think BUT we learn to live with it and move on with our lifes. We will never be able to make everyone happy. Enjoy life and don't pay attention to everything that you hear.
2006-09-12 07:01:40 · answer #9 · answered by Art The Wise 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i assume you're in school, if her parents won't take you heavily yet you're taking her heavily tell a instructor, or better however the councilor. tell your buddy you're frightened approximately her. do no longer provide up merely by using fact eveyone says she's finding for interest, in case you sense it, pass with that. In a case like this it relatively is better to pass over board than to do to little and have it finally end up being too late!
2016-09-30 21:17:31 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋