i have been talking to this girl for almost a month now and we really do seem to click... she claims she was thinknig about me all day yesterday... and in fact i was thinking about her too.. only problem is i just had a "thing" with her best friend.. and she is trying not to like me because of that..what should i do???
2006-09-12 06:56:29 · 17 answers · asked by Skittles 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go with the best friend - is she hot?
2006-09-12 06:57:33 · answer #1 · answered by M S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What kind of thing did you have with her b/f? If It was like a sexual thing that might be a problem! If her best friend has feelings for you in any way than she more than likely isn't going to talk to you the way you want her too! I don't know just tell her you like her but if she turns you down don't be surprised!!!!
2006-09-12 07:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by not_your_average*chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are obviously very young, and you shouldnt really have had a thing if you really liked her, think this girl is waiting for an explanation from you, as if she didnt really like you she would have chosen to ignore you, think you would be better leaving her for a bit so that she has time to think after you explain to her, if she doesnt want to know then i would find some one else after all there are plenty more fish in the sea.
2006-09-12 07:09:51 · answer #3 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...I think that you should just let things flow by themselves for awhile. If you like this girl, tell her, but say that you understand if she doesn't want to start things up yet because what you had with her best friend. Just talk to her...
2006-09-12 07:03:48 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is a tricky sitiuation. However you really should tell her how you feel, as long as your feelings for her are genuine. Then it will be up to her to either tell her friend and see where it goes between you to, or decide that her friendship would not be worth the risk. Either way - good luck.
2006-09-12 07:03:53 · answer #5 · answered by just curious 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were you thinking about her even while you were doin it with her best friend?
So puhLEEZE make sure what is it that you really want.
And if you agree that you were being a jerk and you like her very much then go tell her what's inside your head.
But the don feel bad if she asks you to ...you know what.
2006-09-12 07:06:54 · answer #6 · answered by Lord Of Lust 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u really like this girl be patience...let her learn and know she can trust you...Ask her what she wants tel her how u feel..and go from there....commuication is key....if u dont tell each other how u feel and be up front about everything it will never work....be honest and faithful.......best of luck
2006-09-12 07:01:58 · answer #7 · answered by red head 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grovel
2006-09-12 06:57:25 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience (had a bit in this kind of situ).
She's going to find it hard to resist, and it'll drive her a bit nutty.
Don't see anyway for this to work-out well I'm afraid, due to this "thing" that'll be hanging over both of your heads for the forseeable future, it'll be a constant reminder. anyway that's just my 2 cents.
Best of luck.
2006-09-12 07:00:59 · answer #9 · answered by imcdw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you messed up big time. the ony thing to do is for you and her best friend to sit down and talk about it , and tell her that it was a mistake, if it truly was, then things will work themselves out from there.
2006-09-12 07:00:11 · answer #10 · answered by sknygurl022002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sort your feelings out first.
Is it her or her best friend that you truly and from the bottom of your heart, you like?
Then youll know what to do.=)
Good Luck!
2006-09-12 07:00:35 · answer #11 · answered by rQyelhsa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋