Do you want the men to initiate it, or would you rather be in charge and decide "when" it's a good time?
2006-09-12 06:50:29 · 12 answers · asked by nycrunner69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I prefer it in the evening and my boyfriend to initiate! I cant resist! knowing what he wants! hehe! then when things get started the lady can take charge if she wants to...sometimes its just nice to be controlled. make it spontanius, thats very important!
2006-09-12 06:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by moomoo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i prefer spontaneity as it adds to the thrill, and it doesnt really matter who initiates as this is a modern world ater all, nobody should be in charge but role playing is better.
2006-09-12 13:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by TRACY M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either Or.
I preferably like to initiate. I like to be in control. At the same time, I love the tease. Oh yes.
Spontaneity...mMm. Delicious. I get bored easily, so he better keep up. Ha!
2006-09-12 13:55:50 · answer #3 · answered by xxGlamROCK 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It doesn't matter who initiates as long as both people are okay with it and having fun.
2006-09-12 13:57:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes I do and I think both should take the lead, it shouldn't always be one person...don't most guys hate that their wives or gf don't jump them once in a while?
2006-09-12 13:56:31 · answer #5 · answered by sasha 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Any time is a good time, doesn't matter who starts it as long as we both get a good finish :-D
2006-09-12 14:43:04 · answer #6 · answered by 4eyed zombie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like spontaneity... and lots of it. The same ole bump and grind in the bedroom sucks. Its too routine.
2006-09-12 13:54:11 · answer #7 · answered by sneakyfker 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
men should initiate sex...and it should not be planned
2006-09-12 13:58:10 · answer #8 · answered by vo00do0doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the mood. Sometimes I want to be in control and make him say my name. And sometimes I want him to take charge and tell me what to do. LOL!!!!!
2006-09-12 13:53:49 · answer #9 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either person should initiate it, but it's nicer when men do....
2006-09-12 13:54:12 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋