so why do most girls hate on me? Not interested in taking their b/f's.
2006-09-12 06:46:40 · 26 answers · asked by Cassandra 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not self-absorbed, like alot of you have ansswered. You don't know me on a personal level, I'm a caring, honest, loving person. So...to all the haters...F * C K OFF
2006-09-12 06:53:57 · update #1
they're jealous
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2006-09-12 06:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by absoluteao 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There's two different populars.
There's the 'OMG, I'm so popular', 'i'm easy therefore i'm popular, but i don't get why all the other girls hate on me'. It's clear why they do. But that's their business if they wanna be like that.
AND there's the 'i'm chill, funny, gorgeous, i'm myself & if you don't like it, then steer clear' popular.
Sounds like you might just be waving your attitude around or your something else. But if that isn't the case, then yeah, they might just be hating cause they want to be you. But honey, if it's MOST girls, then obviously check yourself out just to make sure you're not doing anything to provoke it. Popularity shouldn't matter anyway. Most likely that isn't the reason why they don't like you. Regardless be yourself, who cares what everyone else thinks? At the end it's just you. Have fun and chill with the people that actually like you for you and not cause of what you have to offer. Most girls that get reputations are the girls that actually put themselves out there like that. But in some cases this isn't true. I've known a couple people that got into fights but were totally cool and the only reason why people hated on them was because they needed the drama, so one person produces hype and the whole crowd follows. Let it cool down. You should be concentrating on school anyway.
P.S. THE ADDITIONAL COMMENTS YOU JUST PUT UP WITH YOUR QUESTION ... DOESN'T MAKE YOU LOOK VERY LOVING OR CARING. You just put yourself on blast.
2006-09-12 13:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by auniquekind 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it looks like im the only one that will give you any real advice instead of just being rude to you. Girls get like that because they are either insecure or intimidated by you. For whatever reason. If you want to fix this situation.... Try making friends with these girls. Show them you are a nice person. Step outside of your click. SERIOUSLY!!! There are lots of nice girls in your school you havn't gotten to know yet. Don't talk s h i t, don't give dirty looks or think you are better than anyone else. Take my word for it, if you think you are better, people can tell you are thinking that and that is one way you can come across as a b i t c h.
Help someone.... if you see a girl (or guy) who may not be popular or well liked for whatever reason and they drop thier books, help them pick it up instead of laughing or just walking by. I have found in my years that it is a better way to go through life being nice to people (im not saying you aren't nice) helping people out, lending an ear, and talking to people I might not have talked to if someone didn't give me the same advice im giving you. You can't please everyone or change everyones mind but you can do whats in your power to ensure that people see you for who and what you really are. Good luck! :)
2006-09-12 14:03:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are vain, petty, jealous things that can't get over their own insecurities so they take it out on other girls who think they are prettier, funnier, nicer...You name it. No matter what, if you are an attractive female with a good personality, you will have other women hating you for one reason or another - That's why I've always preferred guys as friends...Less DRAMA! Don't sweat it...Just be glad you're something to get jealous over and hold your head up high. If their boyfriends like you more it's more for the fact that you're not a crazy, biatch like they are, not because of how you look. =)
2006-09-12 13:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Brea1243 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many reasons.
Maybe they're jealous because you're popular. Maybe they think you're a *****, even though they may not know you.
Perhaps they wish some attention was being bestowed upon them for a change.
Girls are just jealous by nature and even though you may be the sweetest person in the world someone is going to hate you because they can and want to.
Don't let it bother you. It's just a part of life. Hang with your friends who know you and like you for who you are. Pay no attention to everyone else.
2006-09-12 13:50:36 · answer #5 · answered by bluesie 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Maybe it has something to do with the way you act. Do you act like you are better than everyone else? Do you act like nobody is good enough for you? Ask yourself these questions, and if you answer yes, then this is why other girls "hate on you" as you put it.
2006-09-12 13:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by tricksy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say yes you are full of yourself. Maybe they dont like you because you are a mean girl .
you proclaim that you are popular , yeahbut in what sence ? Maybe you are preety but you seem shallow and insincere. plus the last comments you wrote didnt help your case !
2006-09-12 14:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by dramaqueen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
popular girls don't come online bragging about their popularity to others. they are out with their friends doing fun things. so girls probably don't dislike you because you're popular. it's probably because you dress like a dirty little sl*t and you've had sex with the whole football team. Yeah...they are probably so jealous of you. lol
2006-09-12 13:50:16 · answer #8 · answered by cramner25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most people think that because your popular-your a b****. and in most cases thats true...especially if you look down on other people..i mean just cuz you have the looks doesnt mean you have the brains.
2006-09-12 13:51:47 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you need to ask that question it already shows that you think that the world revolves around you. Don't act so full of yourself and people might like you more.
2006-09-12 13:49:16 · answer #10 · answered by ecogrl23 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My comment " Dont hate the player hate the game".
2006-09-12 14:00:45 · answer #11 · answered by sweetness 24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋