2006-09-12 06:41:48 · 30 answers · asked by Nieshia 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
keep it.
2006-09-12 06:44:01 · answer #1 · answered by babygirl31 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should definitely feel happy about that. So many people give it up too quickly. You should be proud of yourself for holding on.
Only you can decide whether you want to lose your virginity or not.
You should wait until the time is right, when you're with the person you feel you want to give your virginity to.
Don't be pressured by anyone. If it doesn't feel right then wait.
2006-09-12 13:47:06 · answer #2 · answered by bluesie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be happy, celebrate it, keep it for that special person. It is your choice, of course. There is a movement today that thinks just that, kids pledge to keep it until marriage. Good for them, there is a whole bunch of potential problems they avoid by choosing celebacy, like pregancy and disease, among others.
I didn't keep it, and I have never been sorry, but that is me! My choice, and back then, Aids was not as widespread, and I chose another virgin, so my risk of disease was nearly 0.
Good luck with your choice, might want to see if you can find a website about the pledging, or one about diseases, if you need more help making a choice. And please, don't just give it up for the sake of just giving it up. There are books and movies out there about the disappointment that goes with that.
2006-09-12 13:52:57 · answer #3 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm glad you've kept that intact until now. To see that around nowadays is very rare and wonderful. I think you should keep it because you are someone that another special person like yourself might not come across for a few years to come.
Keep it so that when the you both meet, you'll be able to them the one thing that you could give them that is almost more precious than life itself. The ability to create life.
To me that would be a best case scenario. Hope this helps.
2006-09-12 14:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Giving away your virginity is not something like, oh ya' you seem alright to give it up to. Ohhh no thats a precious thing you should only give to someone you really love and care about. Now if you don't feel emotionally or physically ready, don't do it. But if you do feel ready and that person you feel will respect the gift you are giving him and you love him enough to give it to him then have sex with precautions of course...
2006-09-12 13:45:42 · answer #5 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HAPPY. :)
keep it until you WANT to give it away, to someone who is Good, and ultimately worth it. who u trust w/ your heart and mind.
ideally it'd be nice if u can hold out until marriage....but even if u don't, there's NOTHING wrong w/ wanting it to be w/ someone who truly cares and loves you...even if it doesn't work out later, u will have fond memories of this person who had good intentions towards you. but if u did not have those expectations from ur boyfriend First, and give your virginity to him when u felt Secure, u are extremely vulnerable.... when a person is vulnerable, u have to be able to trust that ur partner will take care of you, and not take advantage of that vulnerability. when u trust that person, u will know. until then, don't let any other factors change your views on keeping your virginity. i personally am waiting til marriage, and so is my boyfriend..which i find to be something i treasure, about both of us. but my ex was not a virgin, and i didn't hold it against him. i just Personally made the decision to keep myself *until* i meet the one i truly want to devote my LIFE to. and that is when i am married! :) good luck to you~~ be proud of who u are..do'nt give in to the hype, and to the peer pressure of it all.... u do it when u are ready, and that's it!
2006-09-12 13:47:17 · answer #6 · answered by sasmallworld 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it, your Husband will be worth it.
No, Pregnancy, No STD's, NO messed up emotions, NO worrying about the above, No moral dilemma's, No abortion, No loss of self-Respect.
Just a few reasons to be pure, Plus you will have a wonderful gift for your Husband when you are really ready for it.
God's plan is not so bad.
Peace
2006-09-12 13:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should be happy and keep it untill you fall in love. guys just like to use you for sex. sex is a great thing to be shared by two people that care for each other it feels so much better when there's feeling involved.
2006-09-12 13:46:55 · answer #8 · answered by smurfette_ftwayne 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should feel very proud of that. You should keep it until that very special person comes along. That is a gift that you can never take back, and you don't want to have any regrets when you get older.. Congratulations to you
2006-09-12 13:44:56 · answer #9 · answered by Just Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
KEEP IT!!!
i wish i still had mine, you never know when your gonna lose it to a loser like me ( and i loved him and we talked about getting married) only cause he wanted to **** and the saying once you pop you can't stop is sometimes well most of the time true!! be careful don't try to hurry you have your whole life!
2006-09-12 13:49:36 · answer #10 · answered by Krystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should rejoice that you are a virgin! There is nothing to be ashamed of...Stick by your morals and don't just give it up to anybody...Wait until you meet the right person.
2006-09-12 13:44:54 · answer #11 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋