I am 23 years old and very attractive so most people do not believe me. Plus, there is always the assumption that I do not plan on having sex in the near future, which is incorrect. I feel that I am old and wise enough to make the best decision for myself. Most of the men I date are nice guys so it's not likely that they will cease communication after I tell them, but I just do not feel obligated to tell them at all, so I wanted to know what other people thought.
2006-09-12 06:34:06 · 18 answers · asked by finewine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Good for you for waiting. This is a personal judgment of mine, but I hope you wait for the right person who is committed to you.
I think before it gets to the point where he is pushing you for sex. Besides if the guy refuses to date you any more because you won't jump into bed with him, he's definitely not the right one!
2006-09-12 06:37:09 · answer #1 · answered by Searcher 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell them... Some guys will look at it as a challenge to try to have sex. U don't have any obligation to tell them that, that is Ur business... I applaud U.... U will know when the time to tell the one U truly want know, remember that is a gift U can only give once.....
2006-09-12 13:40:13 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to tell them, they may then think of you as a conquest.
Immorality is not a cool thing and there is noting wrong with purity, you are saving yourself so much pain and trouble by being pure.
Wait for the man of your dreams You both and your future will be worth the wait!
Peace!
2006-09-12 13:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would wait until you know that this is someone you want to get intimate with.
Then I would say something like "Okay, so it's not really that big of a deal, but I have never had sex. It's not that I haven't had the chance - I just never found someone that I wanted to be intimate with."
If he cares, he will understand.
2006-09-12 13:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might as well until your married now! You wont have to deal with the rejected feeling when a guy doesnt call back after you let him in it really hurts! always tell them it is special and a accomplishment you should be proud Just remember to whomever you give it you can never take it back!
2006-09-12 13:37:13 · answer #5 · answered by dreamgirl4myboy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you need to tell them anything that personal about yourself unless your getting into a serious relationship with them and you feel like he can be the "one" So keep your stuff to yourself until you feel comfortbale or the moment has come for anything sexual...
2006-09-12 13:43:28 · answer #6 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why tell them, who cares, it really is not any of their business. Instead tell them that you are not interested in a sexual relationship at this time in your life. That is all you need to tell them, nothing more.
2006-09-12 13:36:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right before he penetrates you, that way maybe he will be a little more gentle because at that age most guys aren't.
2006-09-12 13:36:45 · answer #8 · answered by VeeateU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont tell them at all.....they dont need to know you have never done it before....in the heat of the moment most guys wouldnt care either way as long as they are getting some
2006-09-12 13:36:58 · answer #9 · answered by got_milk1220 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares about their opinion! it's your body and it's your own right to save it. no need to tell them. i suggest that you keep it for your spouse. i'm a proud 23 y.o virgin too! (but i'm not attractive LOL!)
2006-09-12 14:24:37 · answer #10 · answered by immortal1983 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋