im 15year old (ok looking) guy and i havent found a girl that im attracted to (both physically and mentally) .
Is that normal?
How long does it take to find that one perfect girl (for me)?
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2006-09-12 06:26:20 · 20 answers · asked by ssuasw 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
O.kay., here's the deal...
1. You are very young, girls you are around with are very young such as yourself... neither one of you have yet develope into the person you will be as an adult, so don't take it too seriously, be friendly and accept the fact that noone really know what they want at this age.
2. Don't search too hard, let it be natural... one day, she'll come.
3. Get into some activities or hobbies... find someone who has the same interests as you do, she'll be comfortable with you and she'll like you.
4. Be nice!!! not too nice like kissing butt... you know what I mean, it's obvious you want a girlfriend, but what's your expectation? If you want miss little angle... keep waiting, she'll fall down from the sky just for you!!! Enjoy life now, and don't worry too much... girls are very demading and they can get you blood preasure very high... just take your time!
Good Luck and be patient.
2006-09-12 06:36:15 · answer #1 · answered by xp office 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Calm it down there. Take note your only 15. You can start stressing at 19 or around there. Until then you have nothing to worry about.
And I'll tell you something else. When you do get a girl as a girlfriend you will automatically think she's perfect because you won't have anything to comapre it to, but don't, she's just a female guy, thats all, not a goddess. There are so many girls out there... but they won't fall into your lap, this isn't a Britney Spears video. So you gotta do the looking.
I suggest that you start looking closer at the females around you. Some people are very deep in personality. Thats why they say still waters run deep. If your sure that all the females around you aren't right try doing things that will get you interacting with girls of your age (EG: join clubs, find a female pen-pal on the net, your friend's friends, parties). Remeber your only 15 now!
2006-09-12 06:36:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, physically is a very different story from mentally. What I think you might want to do is look for one that you like mentally FIRST that way, if they are also physically attractive, that would just be a nice bonus.
Look for someone that you can have something in common with. That way you can also see what they think about being in a relationship.
However, because if your age, I would suggest that if you find someone a little bit like the girl you want, don't get to attached yet. That way you won't get your heart broken at such a young are. Hope this helps.
2006-09-12 06:44:12 · answer #3 · answered by Jarod R 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
geeze you're only 15...it takes some people a lifetime to find their "perfect" partner if there even is such a thing cuz really everyone seems great at first but after a while that can all change.....just keep your eyes open and be prepared for some disappointments cuz ask any adults and they will tell u a perfect match is hard to find...
2006-09-12 06:34:31 · answer #4 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im 27 and havent but ive seen people 18 years old marry the person they loved. I think it really depends on cirmstance . But never give up and youll find what your looking for ..
2006-09-12 06:32:02 · answer #5 · answered by aaron 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
15, yeah it is very normal. I am 22 and have dated a lot of girls but have not found to right person yet. There is not date set it time that says by this age you are going to meet the right person. Give it time and one day that right person will come along.
2006-09-12 06:28:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as it takes to find the right one. You have 10 years
2006-09-12 06:29:19 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Dude, your looking too hard. Love will fall in your lap when you least expect it. Could take a day or could take years. Don't be in such a rush. Live it up a little and date for awhile.
2006-09-12 06:30:41 · answer #8 · answered by Blue Eyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude, you are 15! Your body hasn't even finished growing yet. How long? I would say about another 10 years
2006-09-12 06:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by David P 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand what you are feeling, sometimes it happens quickly, sometimes, not as quickly as we would like. It is perfectly normal for you to have not found the one yet, just be patient.
2006-09-12 06:32:12 · answer #10 · answered by supernerd 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋