I dont want to because if it doesnt work out with one i have another to fall back on....is this wrong, or am i just being superficial. I just dont like to b alone..
2006-09-12 06:23:27 · 20 answers · asked by luvin21_f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really should tell the guy that you have a BF. Otherwise, if you do not, you could be leading him on. Do you really want to do that (lead him on)? It tells me that you are possibly secretly looking for someone else. If you truly love your BF you need to be completely honest with this other guy. Maybe you should take some time and reflect on what you and your BF have - Is it truly what you want? Is what he wants? Anyways, figure out what it is you want in a guy, and make your decision from that. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 06:31:18 · answer #1 · answered by Rachel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the safest thing and the smartest thing to do is to tell the guy that you like about your boyfriend and just build a close relationship with him so that you feel that you can tell him anything so that you and him can develop feelings for each other than lust so that if you and your present boyfriend break up now this guy that you like will know what you're looking for and you'll know what he wants so that you two can have a real relationship and by you telling him that you have a boyfriend it will build trust instead of not saying anything just be honest with him and if he's a real MAN someone that you really want to be with he'll understand
2006-09-12 13:33:33 · answer #2 · answered by Nieshia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You ARE being superficial...There is nothing wrong with being alone...So fess up and tell this guy that you already have a boyfriend.
2006-09-12 14:42:21 · answer #3 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with this person. Eventually he will find out that you have a boyfriend and if something happens with your current boyfriend you will not have anyone to fall back on.
2006-09-12 13:28:33 · answer #4 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your a bit_ch. Its women like u that makes women like me go postal. Why play games? I cant wait til the day your all alone, it will happen too. Karma baby. What goes around comes around. Grow up. Playing with mens emotions can get you into serious trouble, have you no heart woman?
2006-09-12 13:34:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are too immature to quit playing games with your boyfriend, then you should be alone! You need to grow up some before you start hopping in and out of relationships.
2006-09-12 13:30:16 · answer #6 · answered by Krissy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my relationships have failed because the men in my life have been dishonest and never took the relationship seriously. Of course they always wanted me back after the damage was done. My advice to you is always be HONEST in your relationship no matter what! Its not fair to the other person!
2006-09-12 13:31:55 · answer #7 · answered by happy to be me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're a mess and yes that is wrong, what if the new one finds out that he was a "benchwarmer". Some day, you will have bigger problems than just being "alone"
2006-09-12 13:27:24 · answer #8 · answered by Jenster*is*flipping*you*off 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, tell him hat you are not in a happy relationship and if it doesn't workout you will let him know. It sounds to me that you should just leave your boyfriend now since your having doubts.
2006-09-12 13:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by YAHOO SUCKS ASS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, at this point in your life you have WAY bigger problems than being alone. You should focus on your future instead of worrying about boys.
2006-09-12 13:25:41 · answer #10 · answered by QuestionWyrm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋