My bf split and he got with this new girl. Since we have broken up and he has got with his new gf he has been txtin and callin me late at night. He has made many comments about me and him sleeping together and other stuff. While she was on holiday we met up and he kissed me. He has told me he doesnt think they will be together for much longer and he even called her a slag. When i told him that i cant stand imagining them doing things we used to he told me not to worry about it and that if i was to be with him she wouldnt find out. When i said i wouldnt care if she found out he said thats fair. He didnt txt me last night but he txt me early this morning to say he was sorry about not txtin me. Why would he appologise, i mean its not like we're together any more.
2006-09-12 06:19:24 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he could still have parital feeling for you still but you may get hurt from it so move on there are better guys out there 4 u that wont do that type crap going on that
2006-09-12 06:22:45 · answer #1 · answered by rives 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have any self respect? If this guy is with another girl and doesn't care about having you in the picture too then he has problems obviously. If you take him back again what makes you think he won't cheat on you? Especially after he kissed you when he's with the other girl. He sounds like a complete jerk. Even if he did apologize for not texting. He probably just wants you to wait around for him expecting him to text and call you. Find someone better than that. You are giving him exactly what he wants.
2006-09-12 06:30:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a terrible situation.
Your boyfriend is hedging his bet by keeping you in his loop. He doesn't like the new girl that much and will try to work both of you at once. Since you don't seem to mind you are playing right into his hands. Nice.
You are asking all the wrong questions though. The question should have nothing to do with his apology, but should be something to the effect of "Why am I doing this?"
2006-09-12 06:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Morty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is apologizing to you so that he can get two women. HELLO!? He is trying to have sex with you so that he can have his cake and eat it also. He wants to have sex with both of you. Look, when a man dumps you erase him from your life unless you do not have any of that thing called DIGNITY! He has said nothing about leaving her for YOU am I correct? Even if he did SAY that he would get the cold shoulder from me until he did and EVEN THEN I would be reluctant to trust him because he dumped me before. I have been dumped before in a serious relationship. He called me whining to be with me and so on. You know what he got? A dial tone! I am not perfect and struggle with low self-esteem but I don't let myself be openly and blatantly PLAYED. I suggest you consider the same point of view before you end up being hurt even more deeply than he has already hurt you. Best of luck.
2006-09-12 06:28:12 · answer #4 · answered by Kaitlyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to keep you around just in case. You dont deserve that. You shouldn't be second choice to anybody. You don't know what he is telling the girl he is with now about you. He might still like you, but he knows you will always be there. Respect the girl that he is with now. If you can just be friends with him, leave at that, know the limits. You won't want a girl to do that to you if you were with him. That is how you should think of it. You know whats best for you in the end
2006-09-12 06:28:10 · answer #5 · answered by ConfusedK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like this guy is no good! He sounds dishonest and Cares only about himself. Why don't you ask God about this, you might think that God doesn't care or you might be angry at him for some reason I don't know, but He loves you and cares about the relationships you get into. As far as this guy is concerned the "she wouldn't find out routine"will only lead to misery in the long run. Ive been through it myself, if you don't tell the other person the other person will be hurt and you will be hurt. I will pray for you.
2006-09-12 06:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not get caught up with him again. He may be calling her a slag behind her back but I guarantee he is not saying this to her face. I think you should stop text messaging him and move on with someone new. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 06:23:59 · answer #7 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just wanting to fool around girl? you need to ditch him, and find a reall man. He sounds like a player. He probably has no intention of leaving that other girl. He is just a typical man and does not think with his brain if you know what I mean.
2006-09-12 06:23:35 · answer #8 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's not ready to settle down. He's just having fun, so if you are dreaming of something serious, you'll have to get over him and find someone else. Except you don't get hurt or mind about him being with someone else.
2006-09-12 06:44:22 · answer #9 · answered by Concoction 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He need to stop texting you cause if he couldn't stay with you and got a new friend he need to be with her and stop mess your feeling up it like he trying to keep both of you and that not fair to the new girl or you to be use like that.
2006-09-12 06:32:41 · answer #10 · answered by Happy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋