2006-09-12 06:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by SG 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
There is always hope in life! Believe me I know, if you have gone through the things I have you would know. I been sexually molested by my own father, my mother won't leave him, I been abused by my partner who I loved with all my heart, and I felt like giving up as well. All I could do with my life is try to move on and I have. Things are changing and for the better I hope, but I try not to give up and believe in god and myself. All I can tell you to do is keep your head up and think positive, don't let people make you feel like your not good enough or worth it because you are!
2006-09-12 06:35:16 · answer #1 · answered by heygirl0222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is hope everywhere, you just have to look for it. Some people have problems that prevent them from seeing the hope, or looking for it, or recognizing it when they see it, or even knowing that they are supposed to look for it.
Get some help, some counseling, some meds. You do have some hope, buried way down deep. You came to Answers. Now it is time for step two, get some help.
I am depressed, have been all of my life, I have never had to see a professional, yet. I can still find hope, always could. I got a new job, after almost 20 years at the old one, I gave up thinking there was a good job out there somewhere for me, that maybe I did not deserve to be happy. . But I quit, and took the first job that came along, and made up my mind that happy, smiling me would make this job a good one. It worked! I like the new job, I may stay there a long time. My clients love me, and the staff likes me.
There is a rule of life that is difficult for us to see. It is that you get back what you give, and you have to give to get. You have to live your life, do not let life control you. There is another rule: if you can't see or understand rule #1, you need professional help.
I want you to get help, and I want you to report back, here, and let us know you did. That is your new rule#3. You can ask the question, like, who here wanted to know how I am doing? And ignore the smart -----answers you will get.. I will watch for you, swapneshwar g.
2006-09-12 13:35:49 · answer #2 · answered by riversconfluence 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I am 54 years old. So I am guessing that I have been around a LOT LONGER than you. If not, sorry.
Over the years I have had a LOT of things really "hit the fan," and decided "why bother with life?" But then things got better, sometimes great, and other times not so great!
But that is what life is! Up and down. I have had more UPS vs DOWN'S! And looking back, it was not so bad after all.
Looking forward to the next 50 years.
2006-09-12 13:54:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers you've received, so far, are all good, and I tend to agree with them.
There is a saying, "Where there is life, there is hope". Again, "Where there IS life, there is hope."
This means that if there is NO life, there is NO hope. One cannot have hope if one does NOT have life.
Life has its ups and downs. The longer we live, the longer we know this, and the better we are at "getting through tough times". Getting through tough times gives us strength to get through other tough times we may go through.
Also, the tough times and the wonderful times in life BOTH help make us who we are and both help build our individual characters. In tough times, take time to "smell the roses".
NEVER give up hope and NEVER give up life.
2006-09-12 13:38:34 · answer #4 · answered by Seneca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A long time ago, someone said, "All men lead lives of quiet desperation." I find it to be just some occasional days, or pieces of days when that's true. I refuse to be unhappy all the time.
I have found that those folks who reach out and grab a victory, rather than sorry'n around until someone brings a victory to them, are generally the most pleasant people, as well as the most successful.
Anything from a great big belly laugh to a walk in the woods to the successful preparation of a big supper for friends or family, can be a victory. Grab one and quit whining.
2006-09-12 13:32:15 · answer #5 · answered by doot 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Life is all about focus.
When you're in love with someone, that person is all you think about, all you care about. You'd go any lengths to keep that person happy.
But when you fall out of love with the person, there's no feeling there, you wouldn't go out of your way to do anything for that person.
Now think of your life as being that person you once loved, and now have fallen out of love for. It will put what you feel in your mind in perspective.
Life will come back to you again, as a different person, and you will fall in love again. That I promise you.
2006-09-12 13:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by friedpaw 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's alot of hope in life,you just need to find it! Good Luck!
2006-09-12 13:19:18 · answer #7 · answered by hippiechic35 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because to fail to live, you would be giving up, which would be worse than trying to live a fruitful life and failing.
2006-09-12 13:19:22 · answer #8 · answered by drumrb0y 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't think that way, the HOPE is in your hands you are the architect of your own life,,,do your part & GOD will do the rest...he has a better plan for us, because he is the DIRECTOR & we are just an ACTOR,,,,be brave & strong Just keep the faith for tomorrow is another episode of our life...GOD BLESS
2006-09-12 17:06:21 · answer #9 · answered by louis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because there always is HOPE. Each day is a new day and you never know what might happen! So hope ios always alive
2006-09-12 15:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by cstinkerbell6969 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋