2006-09-12 06:11:53 · 47 answers · asked by http://hogshead.pokerknave.com/ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Only to use as a beast of burden, to mock, to humiliate and then have sex with til I am absolutely satisfied and thoroughly worn out. I would insist she clean my house. Fill my tank with gas. Cook a great meal. Take me to a concert if one is in town I want to go to. Then I'd still kick her butt out. Yes, into the snow if possible. But it would be for her own good you understand. Her development in the next relationship would be greatly enhanced.
2006-09-12 06:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by RenoRoveR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I don't like walking on egg shells wondering when or if he would do it again. Furthermore, I would have to question my relationship and also how my partner allowed him or her to interfere in our relationship to the point they were willing to leave me to be with that person.
The reason why also I say no is because my partner could be returning only because the person doesn't want them not the other way around and instead of being left empty handed they now discover the grass wasn't all that greener on the other side.
Unless I have been unfaithful or mistreating my mate forcing him to want to walk away, I say again no.
If you leave me for someone else, I can't sit around wondering or guessing if he will do it again.
2006-09-12 06:17:59 · answer #2 · answered by words from the heart 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It begs the question how much your ex or reconnected partner loves you!
If the situation is not really strong they will always consider the outside opportunity should it come along.
It then depends if you are prepared to have a relationship like that
I hear it works for sum but at what price to the loyal partners enjoyment and fulfilment of the relationship?
2006-09-12 06:17:21 · answer #3 · answered by philipscottbrooks 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he left you once for someone what makes you think he won't do it again? I personally wouldn't take him back I value myself and know in my heart I deserve better than that.. Besides why would I want to have all the left overs when I could get better than that.. Before you love someone you have to love yourself and in your heart know you deserve nothing but the best. What I mean by that is a good, caring, understanding and loving person... So the answear to your question would be HECK NO!!!!!!!
2006-09-12 06:22:49 · answer #4 · answered by hazelshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you know for certain that they changed their mind and not the new partner? You'll end up wondering if your partner just settled for second best because (s)he couldn't get what they wanted in the first place.
2006-09-12 06:15:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell NO!!!
No-one should be second best or a "make do". They left for a reason and they shouldn't keep you hanging by strings - you are not their puppet.
Who's to say they wouldn't change their mind again two months down the lane?
Emotions are not there to be played with.
Steer clear :-}
2006-09-12 06:48:30 · answer #6 · answered by MISS B.ITCH 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of people say once a cheater always a cheater! But that aint always the case. Maybe when he left you he finally realised what he had lost and how the new person just couldnt compare to you. I done it, if he can realise his mistake and you love him then forgive him and move on.
2006-09-12 07:28:44 · answer #7 · answered by Rach 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't because you couldn't trust them not to do it again. My cousin cheated on her husband of 11 years 14 times during their marriage and each time he took her back she vowed never to do it again, the last time she left him for a 21 year old toy boy and she is still with him.
2006-09-12 06:17:05 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'll say YES.
if your partner left you for any reason and then decided to be back and fix everything, it means he knew what his mistake was, and that he can not live without you.
believe me, if he is back to you, he would act much better than before, just not to loose you.
But make sure you explain to him you are only giving him this one chance.
2006-09-12 06:20:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO WAY......what is to say that they won't change their minds again and leave you again.. Why put yourself through that.. Just leave them alone, and find someone that will love you, and never leave you for someone else.
2006-09-12 06:14:03 · answer #10 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋