Over the summer, my girlfriend of two years attended several parties with mutual friends. On a couple of occasions, they played strip poker and strip kings. The group always stops at panties/boxers, but she lost her bra more than once.
I really like this girl, but it is a little awkward since several of my friends has seen her naked. She insists it wasn't cheating because nothing happened, and that I should just get over it.
If it matters, we had attended a couple of parties together, but neither of us ever played a public stripping game.
What should I do?
2006-09-12 06:06:08 · 12 answers · asked by John F 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Seems like since she only does it when you are not around then she is not too honest with you.
If she truly didn't have a problem she would do it WITH you and not just when you are not there,
2006-09-12 08:03:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cheating means different things to everyone. Some people consider emailing someone else cheating. If you don't like it and feel awkward around your friends then I would consider what she did wrong. If she has been a great girlfriend in every other way then I would probably let it go this time but tell her that you don't want it to happen again. Good Luck!
2006-09-12 13:12:35 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strip poker is not cheating, it is only a game. You may try to persuade your girlfriend to play a strip poker at which questions are asked about subjects she is good at, but she may not agree.
2006-09-12 14:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Avner Eliyahu R 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop sounding like such a wus. If you're jealous because she played strip poker which ended up in an orgy, don't hate, go w/ her next time and join the fun. You sound like a party pooper.
2006-09-12 13:33:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no it's not cheating, never hearts to look, just don't touch, sound stupid but it's true, if you want my advice, when i find something is loose, it' usually slips and falls sooner or later. same thing could happen with your girlfriend, but for the time being, you and your girlfriend went into the game willingly, so you can't say anything about it, if you don't like it any more, discuss it with her, she doesn't like what you have to say, then it's your call where you want to go with that relationship.
2006-09-12 13:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by mikel b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, it is not cheating, but if you are not comfortable with it, and she still will not stop, then you should break up with her. It is not right, if you don't want her doing it, ans she should respect that. Ask her how she would feel if it were you, with her friends, and they saw you naked...
2006-09-12 13:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its all really how you defind it. cheating to one person maybe doing what she is doing. but to her she was just having some fun with some friends.
but you should talk to her and tell her how you feel about the whole situation
2006-09-12 13:11:32 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not cheating at all, as long as she didn't do anything. But that's just my opinion, but if you feel uncomfortable about it, tell her. Good Luck!!!
2006-09-12 13:10:09 · answer #8 · answered by vernise2679 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really. It all depends on what you are comfortable with. She sounds immature. If this bothers you, & you are important to her, she needs to knock it off.
2006-09-12 13:10:40 · answer #9 · answered by T S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stripping is normal but if she is having sex now that is a prob
2006-09-12 13:10:45 · answer #10 · answered by playcruel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋